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free from suffering, does not imply
never experiencing sensual pleasures anymore... if one doesn't crave them, but they happen sometimes... what's so "sinful" about them? what? buddhas don't eat ice-cream, because it is "sinful"? middle path, anyone?
Nirvana is about being free from suffering, and that INCLUDES being free from dogma (the fetters: rituals and ceremonies don't free samsaric beings from suffering... AND having confindence in the chosen path does not imply believing in Dharma as if it was a dogma).
I chosed to be an urban buddhist monk (related to a type of Zen Buddhist monks), mainly to translate the Pali Tripitaka to 3 western languages (italian, spanish and english)... and, if I become a 10 bhumi boddhisattva, to teach freely the Dharma.
for those purposes, following dogmas will be simply an ignorant conclusion. SO, I reserve the right of freedom... of marrying (in a civil way, there's no marriage in the Dharma... but some traditions regarding it are nice) and of having a job! in fact, begging for food is... not that honorable (in my book).
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Since very early age....Sorry in advance I do not agree with the practise of monk simply because in Buddhism I choose to belief "teaching" does axist....
Buddha taught if we can free our mind from sensuality, we can experience a greater happiness, that of meditative bliss.
Buddha did not say sensual pleasure was a sin.
He said sensual pleasure is not worth 1/16 of non-sensual pleasure.
Buddha taught there are two kind of pleasure: (1) sensual & (2) non-sensual and #2 is superior.
Buddha taught pleasure #1 is an obstacle to pleasure #2.
there's karma: neutral, good and evil. "sin" is 1/3rd of possible karma.
and again, it was sarcasm... and I prefer sanskrit.
About your "Middle Way, anyone?" question, Vincenzi, monks who renounce sex and other pleasures and attachments aren't following a Middle Way in that sense. The goal is to avoid distractions in order to facilitate meditation and the realization of Nirvana. A Middle Way approach to to sensual pleasure would risk increasing attachment. There's a reason why monks are called "renunciates".
if so, what we should do is to get rid of our 'kama-raga' (attachment to sense pleasure) and patigha (the hate that arise when we do not get what we want in regard to our sense faculties, eye, ear, nose, tongue, body))
the hardest thing is to get rid of our attachment to food
if we can really understood food (its form (rupa), sound (sabdha), smell (ghndha), taste (rasa), feel (pottabba) and get rid of the attachment to food then we become anagami
unless, we are at a lesser level of anagami,
it may be sotapanna, sakakagami or pruthajjana
I partially disagree. Middle Way includes reserving the right of acting freely in all matters as long as ahimsa ethics are followed... AND, it includes understanding of a boddhisattva or an anagami (or close to it) level of freedom from trishna (craving).
but yes... no raga (craving) for rupa (form, as experienced by the senses) and raga ("sensual objects").
@TheJourney, I also love samskrita (sanskrit)!
It strikes me that aversion is really attachment to avoiding things, and a huge trap unwary newbies can fall into. Sometimes extremes can be so much easier than the Middle Way - extremes are rigid rules we set ourselves, and as such can seem like safe little boxes we can hide in.
Maybe that's why fundamentalism is so popular throughout the world - no need to struggle over thorny moral issues, no need to take each situation on its merits and work out the best course of action. Mindfulness can be so much hard work - much easier to follow a rule-book.
Eat your ice-cream. Enjoy it, be grateful that you can enjoy it, whilst so many cannot. Share it with a friend, or give the ice-cream seller a tip. Ice-cream is a wonderful blessing, like a sunny, Spring day, or making a child giggle. And like those things, it is here and then it is gone; and if we have no attachment, we have no regrets. We just enjoyed the moment it was here and let it go.
The joys in life are like holding a little bird in your hand. You have to hold on to it gently, not too tightly or you'll crush it; and in a little while you have to let it go.
I agree with Ada_B, ice cream isn't a big deal, unless you crave it. It depends on which sensual pleasures we're talking about. Some are more addicting and potentially samsaric than others.
yes... I am both (anyone who took the boddhisattva vow is a boddhisattva? how is one sure of being at a specific bhumi? are bhumis just general markers?).
And no, indulging is unwise; as is taking the extreme view of "prohibiting it for life". just wanted to expose this as extreme view and not Middle Way.
Buddhist monks do not beg for food. They accept, what is offered to them. If nothing is offered, they go without food. There's a big difference and I think you might have misunderstood this part of monks life.
Also Buddhist monks do not pursue honor, but humility.
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As for example the dogma that Nirvana is about being free from suffering, right?
if so, when one is at sotapanna (sotapanna magga and sotapanna pala come in two consecutive momens, one after the other) one knows, one is at sotapanna pala/ right view/ stream enterer and stream winner
one may not know the name for it like sotapanna etc. but one knows what it is because one has that experience without depending on others' words or explanations
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on that day only Siddartha (bodhisatva) understood the the Four Noble Truth
so he was not a sotapanna before he attained Enlightenment
it says, he could have had attained sotapanna at the time of Deepankara Buddha
but instead he postpone his own awakening thinking he would help millions and millions of other sentient beings by becoming a Buddha
Instead, if is a vow of a walker of the path of Dharma (preferably at least at a srotapanna level)... to have rebirths after Nirvāna for the help of all.
The Boddhisatva status only becomes official when one retakes the same vow in the presence of a real Buddha.
Those who originally start by taking the vow.....and those who eventually succeed in becoming Buddhas....are compared to one grain of sand, and all the grains of sand on Earth.....a slim chance indeed....because it is such a monumental task.
Thus a Boddhisatva does postpone their own attainment of Nirvana, that is why they are worthy of such respect. They might easily have become a monk in a Buddhas retinue and attained to Arahant in that very lifetime....but chose to become a Buddha in the far distant future instead.
Recanting the vow is nothing to be ashamed of.....if one wishes to progress to Sotapannahood and on more quickly.
I disagree... it doesn't make sense. First, Nirvāna... then, teach the Dharma as a Bodhisattva (remembering past lifes to teach in a better way).
I am looking from the Theravada perspective where a Boddhisatva is a Buddha in training.
"the mercurial stream of life, our thoughts, passions, dreams, and despairs are always coming forth. Revealing the fabric of truth and the presence of our reality. Nirvana is not about ditching our reality for some non-being status, it is about seeing the “source” of all that is. And in that realization, we see the dance of life as it comes forth, knowing it, and in knowing it realize our own truth, our thusness. And in realizing that truth, we live the lives we are here to experience. For this is the truth as it is revealed in the light of this reality."
http://bodhimindinstitute.blogspot.com/2007/05/dough-mix.html
lol ! :scratch:
But you probably know already, Dazzle.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tathātā/Dharmatā
I would say tathata is more like a process.
Instead of piling ideas and preferences upon ideas and preferences, we can stop doing that.
And then if we stop bothering about them, the ideas and preferences we already had, dry up on their own.
Does that make any sense to you?