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The Medical Model of Mental Illness

personperson Don't believe everything you thinkThe liminal space Veteran

I came across this video describing the way we've moved to a medical model of mental illness and how, though well intentioned, is showing down sides. I think I've been having this sense that the way I hear many people talking about mental illness these days that something was off. I've now spent more than half my life meandering along a spiritual path and learned time tested Buddhist approaches to addressing issues of mental health before being introduced to western psychological thinking.

Anyway, like the video, I'm not outright negating all of western psychology in its current forms. Its just saying that we're still learning and there is an unintended consequence of learned helplessness in the way people are relating to their mental illnesses. Rather than say you have depression or are depressed, say you are experiencing depression. The last option holds out the possibility for change and allows for positive growth.

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  • zorrozorro minneapolis Veteran

    I recently read the book "Lost Connections" by Johann Hari, which discusses this issue. Very interesting and informative, and offers different solutions.

  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    Absolutely. Do you know the website Mad in America? There are a lot saner perspectives on mental health out there, rather than what psychiatrists are taught as medical doctors.

    Also I’d point out that the “chemical imbalance” theory of mental illness has long since been disproved — basically when you ask a specialist whether they have ever found the chemical that is imbalanced, they end up admitting that no, actually they didn’t find that. It is just a short explanation that survives because it’s easy.

    Again, diagnosis is just a shorthand for a bunch of symptoms. For a lot of mental health issues it is much more relevant to ask a patient about what happened to them. The story of what affected someone’s life can be much more revealing than just a list of symptoms.

    marcitko
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  • personperson Don't believe everything you think The liminal space Veteran

    Seeing the video set me on a path and another good piece I came across is this one from the Atlantic.

    I WAS WRONG ABOUT TRIGGER WARNINGS
    Has the national obsession with trauma done real damage to teen girls?

    By Jill Filipovic

    My own doubts about all of this came, ironically, from reporting on trauma. I’ve interviewed women around the world about the worst things human beings do to one another. I started to notice a concerning dissonance between what researchers understand about trauma and resilience, and the ways in which the concepts were being wielded in progressive institutions. And I began to question my own role in all of it.

    Feminist writers were trying to make our little corner of the internet a gentler place, while also giving appropriate recognition to appallingly common female experiences that had been pushed into the shadows. To some extent, those efforts worked. But as the mental health of adolescent girls and college students crumbles, and as activist organizations, including feminist ones, find themselves repeatedly embroiled in internecine debates over power and language, a question nags: In giving greater weight to claims of individual hurt and victimization, have we inadvertently raised a generation that has fewer tools to manage hardship and transform adversity into agency?

    ...Applying the language of trauma to an event changes the way we process it. That may be a good thing, allowing a person to face a moment that truly cleaved their life into a before and an after, and to seek help and begin healing. Or it may amplify feelings of helplessness and hopelessness, elevating those feelings above a sense of competence and control.

    “We have this saying in the mental-health world: ‘Perception is reality,’ ” Jain said. “So if someone is adamant that they felt something was traumatizing, that is their reality, and there’s probably going to be mental-health consequences of that.”

    Martin Seligman, the director of the Positive Psychology Center at the University of Pennsylvania, has spent the past 50 years researching resilience. One study he co-authored looked at the U.S. Army, to see if there was a way to predict PTSD. Unsurprisingly, he and his fellow researchers found a link to the severity of the combat to which soldiers were exposed. But the preexisting disposition that soldiers brought to their battlefield experiences also mattered. “If you’re a catastrophizer, in the worst 10 or 20 percent, you’re more than three times as likely to come down with PTSD if you face severe combat,” Seligman told me. “And this is true at every level of severity of combat—the percentage goes down, but it’s still about twice as high, even with mild combat or no obvious combat.”

    In other words, a person’s sense of themselves as either capable of persevering through hardship or unable to manage it can be self-fulfilling. “To the extent we overcome and cope with the adversities and traumas in our life, we develop more mastery, more resilience, more ability to fend off bad events in the future,” Seligman told me. “But conversely, to the extent that we have an ideology or a belief that when traumatic events occur, we are the helpless victims of them—that feeds on itself.”

    Seligman also found that some soldiers who experienced severe trauma could not only survive, but actually turn their suffering into a source of strength. “About as many people who showed PTSD showed something called post-traumatic growth, which means they have an awful time during the event, but a year later they’re stronger physically and psychologically than they were to begin with,” he said. But that empowering message has yet to take hold in society.

    ...Most of the experts I spoke with were careful to distinguish between an individual student asking a professor for a specific accommodation to help them manage a past trauma, and a cultural inclination to avoid challenging or upsetting situations entirely. Thriving requires working through discomfort and hardship. But creating the conditions where that kind of resilience is possible is as much a collective responsibility as an individual one.

    If we want to replace our culture of trauma with a culture of resilience, we’ll have to relearn how to support one another—something we’ve lost as our society has moved toward viewing “wellness” as an individual pursuit, a state of mind accessed via self-work. Retreating inward, and tying our identities to all of the ways in which we’ve been hurt, may actually make our inner worlds harder places to inhabit.

    “If everything is traumatic and we have no capacity to cope with these moments, what does that say about our capacity to cope when something more extreme happens?” Ungar said. “Resilience is partly about putting in place the resources for the next stressor.” Those resources have to be both internal and external. Social change is necessary if we want to improve well-being, but social change becomes possible only if our movements are made up of people who believe that the adversities they have faced are surmountable, that injustice does not have to be permanent, that the world can change for the better, and that they have the ability to make that change...

    https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2023/09/trigger-warnings-feminism-teen-girls-mental-health/674759/

    Sorry if I pasted a lot of the article, it was hard to find an essence without taking it out of context. The article has more in the way of solutions and nuance.

    lobstermarcitko
  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    The thing is, there are undeniably traumatic experiences, such as the suicide of a loved one. I don’t think you want to build a society that treats those kind of experiences as something to be learnt from. And every society that takes the stance “learn from it, toughen up” also inevitably has its casualties among the more sensitive people.

    At the moment the social pendulum seems to have swung towards acknowledging the sensitive souls and seeing what we need to do to accommodate them. That is a good thing — society coming to terms with the sensitivity of its members. It will take some time and effort to find a good middle way, a position that encompasses both encouraging resiliency and allowing for sensitivity.

    lobstermarcitkoVastmind
  • personperson Don't believe everything you think The liminal space Veteran

    @Jeroen said:
    The thing is, there are undeniably traumatic experiences, such as the suicide of a loved one. I don’t think you want to build a society that treats those kind of experiences as something to be learnt from.

    I'd adjust your point some an say we do want to build a society where people learn from those experiences, but we'd rather prevent them in the first place. This is samsara, pain and trauma are inevitable, lets build social and psychological structures that help people grow and thrive.

    And every society that takes the stance “learn from it, toughen up” also inevitably has its casualties among the more sensitive people.

    I wouldn't want to go back to some rougher past. I do believe in progress, in moving forward to something better. I think what I'm seeing in the video and this article are that our steps at doing that are leading to some unintended consequences that are making things worse in some ways.

    At the moment the social pendulum seems to have swung towards acknowledging the sensitive souls and seeing what we need to do to accommodate them. That is a good thing — society coming to terms with the sensitivity of its members. It will take some time and effort to find a good middle way, a position that encompasses both encouraging resiliency and allowing for sensitivity.

    I agree, it is a good thing. Valuing and understanding differing dispositions can be a strength when done right. I'd argue that there's a difference between accommodating and coddling though. It is proving to be unhealthy to prevent too much stress and discomfort, it seems a fact of our biology and psychology that people need challenges to grow. The human story seems to have a lot to do with seeking comfort in an unforgiving world, we're at a point in our history where it is becoming possible for some to live in a near constant state of comfort and we're beginning to see some of the downsides.

  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    Hmm overpopulation, climate change and biosphere denuding may catch up with us before the majority of the human population lives permanently in comfort, I suspect.

    lobsterVastmind
  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator

    My take written earlier this year:

    I've had a couple of visits about my mental health with my PCP and a student clinical psychologist in the past week and have started buspirone to help with my depression and anxiety. But during those visits, I had trouble expressing some of the conditions and stressors that make it difficult, i.e., a combination of existential crises and material conditions under capitalism that make me feel constantly empty and anxious. As such, I'm both tentatively hopeful and chronically frustrated—hopeful the medication can help but frustrated that the world continues to be the way it is and creates so much unnecessary suffering.

    My doctor recommended buspirone to help me weather the increased effects of the depression and anxiety I've been experiencing lately. And while I've been hesitant to take medications like this in the past, I've decided to see if it can help. But it's frustrating that many people, particularly in healthcare, don't seem to consider how our society contributes to the growing issue of depression and anxiety.

    It seems like more and more people are struggling with these issues, some silently, some reaching out for help, and others taking their own lives. And while there are certainly physiological and psychological conditions caused by everything from chemical imbalances in the brain to the effects of trauma that healthcare professionals can help with in the form of medications and therapy techniques (e.g., cognitive behavioral therapy) that can be life changing, I think there are some deep-seated causes that have gone unaddressed and continue to feed into people's depression and anxiety—most of them being the external stressors weighing heavily on people stemming from the ways we organize our society.

    It frustrates me, though, whenever I try to talk about the way I feel and see the world to healthcare providers. Most immediately assume my unhappiness with the world and ambivalence to existence mean I'm an immediate suicide risk, and I have to repeatedly try to express the experience of existential malaise and unsatisfactoriness with the world we've created in a way that they can understand differentiates the two. There's plenty of religious and philosophical vocabulary surrounding this, but little in the medical field because they often start with some general assumptions about society that I don't think are completely true, such as the world is inherently good and life inherently meaningful and worth living as is. If you're not happy with life as it is, it's you who has to change. But if the world and the life we've created are scrutinized in any serious manner, I think it becomes clear that there are material social conditions that actually have a negative impact on our health and well-being.

    In this country, for example, which is arguably the wealthiest and most technologically advanced in the world, most people have to work for a wage to survive, or else hustle one way or the other, and oftentimes both. People often have to spend a great deal of time at work (the majority of our waking hours in fact) and commuting to and from work, keeping us away from friends and family and limiting the free time we need to exercise or relax and recharge. Workloads themselves are often full of stress. On top of that, wages for many aren't enough to do more than pay for rent, food, and other bills, and people feel like they're living to work (and this is exacerbated by things like inflation, which is designed to weaken the spending power of wages further and make borrowing harder to slow consumption, thereby lowering demand and prices and all that other stuff to combat inflation without at the same time overly hurting capital and overall market growth). They don't call it "the rat race" for nothing. As if that weren't enough, even more pressures come from trying to make due with what you get, forcing us to make tough financial choices between things like paying for food, rent, and utilities vs. healthcare, childcare, and car repairs. Over half of Americans alone live paycheck to paycheck in a state of perpetual precarity and the threat of unemployment and ruin around every corner. And if you want to gamble, you can put yourself into a lifetime of debt to get a higher education and piece of paper that might get you a little extra cheese, but there are no guarantees. It's also difficult to relax when at least five days are full of going full speed to make someone else rich and two days are left for you to try and do all your personal errands, spend time with friends and family, and do something enjoyable and meaningful. And when we don't have the time or money for that, we often find it easier to self medicate with drugs or alcohol or reality TV or whatever helps us through the day.

    And the broader socioeconomic atmosphere across the globe isn't much better, often full of violence and uncertainty, from wars and food shortages to volatile stock markets and imperialist competition between nation states, many of which are trying to catch up to and compete with the hegemony of the US. Combined all of that with the ability to have constant stimulation from news and social commentary on TV, social media, etc., it's little wonder that people are seemingly suffering from depression and anxiety more than ever before.

    Certainly not every mental health issue is caused by these material conditions, but a large number are, and the majority almost definitely exacerbated by them. If we want to truly address this growing mental health crisis, we must not only expand access to and normalize mental healthcare and our vocabulary around the experience of mental pain, unsatisfactoriness, and loss or absence of meaning, but also address the omnipresent material conditions giving rise to and exacerbating them. We need more free time. We need to have our basic needs met without having to work ourselves to death. We need more access to the things that make life worthwhile and enjoyable. And we need to share all of that with everyone instead of a system where a few profit disproportionately off of the labour of the many, while the many in turn benefit from the oppression and exploitation of the poor and marginalized. Capitalism is a pyramid of inequality, and the further down you are, the heavier your burden and its negative impacts.

    JeroenVastmindShoshin1
  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran
    edited October 2023

    @Jason said:
    I've had a couple of visits about my mental health with my PCP and a student clinical psychologist in the past week and have started buspirone to help with my depression and anxiety.

    I have some experience with mental health medication and how difficult it is to get off it once you’re on it. My take is, trying holistic options such as herbal supplements, mood enhancers like scents and candles, more relaxing baths, are all good things to visit first.

    Further I’d suggest considering psychedelic therapy. They are relatively safe compared to the side effects of many so-called antidepressive medicines, and often work for a long period for depression, half a year to multiple years.

    all of that with the ability to have constant stimulation from news and social commentary on TV, social media, etc., it's little wonder that people are seemingly suffering from depression and anxiety more than ever before.

    Which is why I select my social media with great care… I hang out on this forum and a few others for the lovely people and fellowship, but I have to admit that for a personality given to comparing themselves to others (unlike me) social media is highly corrosive. TV I take in very limited doses. But these are “first world problems”.

    Certainly not every mental health issue is caused by these material conditions, but a large number are, and the majority almost definitely exacerbated by them.

    Mental health is affected by a large number of factors, but probably the foremost among them are childhood trauma and immigration, I remember seeing.

    Capitalism is a pyramid of inequality, and the further down you are, the heavier your burden and its negative impacts.

    It seems to me that capitalism and materialism are systems that are bad for the mental health of the citizens, that’s true. The current mental health crisis is only the beginning, it’s something that’s working its way through the working generations. I had my own breakdown ten years ago.

  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    I came across an interesting piece in a Dutch tv show called Everyone Enlightened, where they were talking about transcultural therapy. In parts of the Netherlands like around Amsterdam and Rotterdam more than 50% of young people have a parent from a non-Dutch culture, and so when they run into mental health difficulties, they need therapy which connects with their culture.

    The founders of the transcultural therapy expertise centre found that there was a fundamental difference between “we”-culture and “I”-culture… that a lot of the people from Surinam, from Indonesia, and other places carried within them an expectation of “we”-culture where older people had an inherent authority and a supporting role, like the tribal elders of their homeland.

    In modern western culture there was much more an independence, an “I”-culture. And this caused them many difficulties. In the transcultural therapy one of the first things they would do is set up a lineage chart, plotting family relationships against cultural backgrounds. I found it a fascinating direction of thought, because the support of one’s elders means different things in different cultures, and perhaps western culture is rather struggling with this.

  • @Jason Are you up for an experiment? I think it would help. For one week, do not read the news and do not discuss politics or cultural matters. Dedicate yourself to your ordinary daily life and your personal projects. Integrate into these activities your understanding of the Dharma. That's it. After a week, take note if this was helpful or not to your overall state of mind.

    I propose this because - especially when I am in negative states of mind, but also in general - the news and political discussions are detrimental to my wellbeing. Dedicating myself to ordinary life, while trying for this ordinary life to be an expression of my deepest understanding of the Dharma - is supportive of my wellbeing.

    JeroenhowShoshin1
  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator

    @marcitko said:
    @Jason Are you up for an experiment? I think it would help. For one week, do not read the news and do not discuss politics or cultural matters. Dedicate yourself to your ordinary daily life and your personal projects. Integrate into these activities your understanding of the Dharma. That's it. After a week, take note if this was helpful or not to your overall state of mind.

    I propose this because - especially when I am in negative states of mind, but also in general - the news and political discussions are detrimental to my wellbeing. Dedicating myself to ordinary life, while trying for this ordinary life to be an expression of my deepest understanding of the Dharma - is supportive of my wellbeing.

    Oh trust me, all of that had been done na y, many times over the last 20 years. And it is helpful, but not to the extent that I'm not still suffering or struggling with constant pressure from work and relationships and not making a living wage. But you're right that it can help relieve some of it, which is why I haven't been active here or much of anywhere. Everyday there is some regret that I didn't ordain when I had the opportunity. C'est la vie. Maybe in my next life.

    marcitkoJeroenShoshin1
  • marcitkomarcitko Veteran
    edited October 2023

    Dear @Jason I should have written this immediately in my first post so I apologise for being "secretive": I confess that I proposed the "media-fast" because in your original post I saw a lot of "capitalism-blaming", which it seems you are using to vent your frustrations but then it is (imo) creating more frustration. I am not a political-relativist - and do believe there are better and worse political views and systems - but ultimately the state of society is not the main cause of our problems, nor changing it the remedy. We need to stand on our own two feet, do our practice, change for the better in a radical way, including changing our outer circumstances where possible.

    ""Which is why I haven't been active here or much of anywhere."
    I read these Buddha quotes on spiritual friendship yesterday. They pull at the heart strings and seem so true to me. Feel free to post here more, seems to me NB qualifies in spades as a place of spiritual friendship.

    "And it is helpful, but not to the extent that I'm not still suffering or struggling with constant pressure from work and relationships and not making a living wage."
    Same here. What are we gonna do about it? Collapse and quit striving? Accept and continue the status-quo? Come out fighting guns a'blazin?

    "Everyday there is some regret that I didn't ordain when I had the opportunity. C'est la vie. Maybe in my next life."
    I have this regret often as well.
    If my father ever said something wise and also embodied it it was to say that we cannot change the past but we can always do something right in the present and thus steer the future.
    Ordaining is very helpful circumstances, but ultimately it is only circumstances. Would you consider "ordaining" in your present situation by treating yourself as a monk, your dwelling as a monastery, your job as work-practice, your relationships as Sangha relationship, your free-time as opportunity for deeper inner work? In a monastery, that's basically what you'd be doing, granted, with much more support.
    Or maybe more practically and easier, would you consider initiating or deepening your relationship with a Sangha near you? There are many monasteries that allow people for extended stays.

    A long-time Zen practitioner who ultimately resolved all of his questions had this same problem. He was a construction-contractor and while engaged in construction projects would often think: "If only I did not have to do this stupid construction, I could go off to a mountaintop, meditate, and get enlightened!". Then one day he saw clearly how such thinking removed him from the actual-factual present moment. So he dropped such thinking and from then on devoted himself fully to whatever he needed to do in the present moment. These days he enjoys asking people the question: "What should you be doing right now?". Where the answer is always what someone is doing right now (so, for me, for instance, writing this message to you).

    Apologies if this was unsolicited advice. Just trying to be of help in the spirit of spiritual friendship.

  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran
    edited October 2023

    @Jason said:
    Oh trust me, all of that had been done na y, many times over the last 20 years. And it is helpful, but not to the extent that I'm not still suffering or struggling with constant pressure from work and relationships and not making a living wage. But you're right that it can help relieve some of it, which is why I haven't been active here or much of anywhere. Everyday there is some regret that I didn't ordain when I had the opportunity. C'est la vie. Maybe in my next life.

    It’s interesting Jason, that you are concerned with making a living wage, and at the same time thought seriously about ordination in the past. As a monk you’d have a lot less than you do now, you would have given up physical possessions and would be eating once a day and living off donations.

    Considering life as a single person without a family, in a way the whole idea of stress is in the mind. I recently went through a period without any income and was confronted with losing my home, and so had to think about what would happen if I ended up living on the streets. I concluded I could still be happy, I could give up all my stuff, my home, my comforts, my coffee, and just let it all go. Luckily then the opportunity arose to go live with my mother and stepfather with Alzheimer’s for a while, and help them out.

    But in India the Hindu sadhu’s and sannyasins, the holy men, also live in the streets and practice austerity. They have renounced, gone forth from the home, and live without possessions, health care or comforts, at most they have a copy of the Bhagavad Gita to read from.

    My point is, it really is all in the mind. If they can live a happy and spiritual life like that, then so can we. If you can find the right things to let go of, the places where you still cling to comfort or to the things that society expects or to the idea I-am-the-body perhaps, then it is possible to be happy under nearly any circumstance, without stress and with ease.

    Existential considerations too, in my experience, have been about not letting go. About wanting things to be other than as they were, or wanting there to be fairness and justice. These are things worth striving for, but we have to acknowledge that we can only do so much. At a certain point we have to let go.

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  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator
    edited October 2023

    I kind of regret saying anything as it's already causing me more dukkha. lol So just some general comments in reply to @marcitko and @Jeroen.

    • Many Buddhists often tend to disagree with me on this, but I believe that material conditions can and most certainly do affect our mental and emotional well-being. Perhaps saying that "it's all in the mind" is ultimately true. But for anyone who's not dead or enlightened, material conditions can cause as much suffering as anything else. If one is hungry, saying it's all in the mind does little-to-nothing to satiate the hunger or relieve the suffering one is experiencing. One will likely do what they can to eat as opposed to starve. It's basic biology. An awakening being may be content in the midst of hunger, pain, illness, etc., but I'm no awakened being, so I still choose to eat, relieve pain, seek wellness, etc. out of necessity.
    • Re: the role of capitalism. Depression and anxiety are increasingly becoming an issue, with more and more people struggling, taking their own lives, or reaching out for help. And while healthcare professionals can often provide care in the form of medications and therapy techniques like cognitive behavioral therapy that can be life changing, I think there are some deep-seated causes that have gone unaddressed and continue to feed into people's depression and anxiety—most of them being the external stressors weighing heavily on people stemming from the ways we organize our society. Most people have to work for a wage to survive, or else hustle one way or the other, sometimes both. People often have to spend a great deal of time at work (the majority of our waking hours in fact) and commuting to and from work, keeping us away from friends and family and limiting the free time we need to exercise or relax and recharge. Workloads themselves are often full of stress. On top of that, wages for many aren't enough to do more than pay for rent, food, and other bills, and people feel like they're living to work. They don't call it "the rat race" for nothing. As if that weren't enough, even more pressures come from trying to make due with what you get, forcing us to make tough financial choices between things like paying for food, rent, and utilities vs. healthcare, childcare, and car repairs. Over half of Americans alone live paycheck to paycheck in a state of perpetual precarity and the threat of unemployment and ruin around every corner. And if you want to gamble, you can put yourself into a lifetime of debt to get a higher education and piece of paper that might get you a little extra cheese, but there are no guarantees. It's also difficult to relax when at least five days are full of going full speed to make someone else rich and two days are left for you to try and do all your personal errands, spend time with friends and family, and do something enjoyable and meaningful. And when we don't have the time or money for that, we often find it easier to self medicate with drugs or alcohol or reality TV or whatever helps us through the day. And the broader socioeconomic atmosphere across the globe isn't much better, often full of violence and uncertainty, from wars and food shortages to volatile stock markets and imperialist competition between nation states. Combined that with the ability to have constant stimulation from news and social commentary on TV, social media, etc., it's little wonder that people are suffering from depression and anxiety more than ever before. Certainly not every mental health issue is caused by these material conditions, but a large number are, and the majority almost definitely exacerbated by them. If we want to truly address this growing mental health crisis, we must not only expand access to and normalize mental healthcare, but also address the omnipresent material conditions giving rise to and exacerbating them. We need more free time. We need to have our basic needs met without having to work ourselves to death. We need more access to the things that make life worthwhile and enjoyable. And we need to share all of that with everyone instead of a system where a few profit disproportionately off of the labour of the many, while the many in turn benefit from the oppression and exploitation of the poor and marginalized. Capitalism is a pyramid of inequality, and the further down you are, the heavier your burden and its negative impacts.
    • Saying things like, "We need to stand on our own two feet, do our practice, change for the better in a radical way, including changing our outer circumstances where possible" hints at this. Yes, striving to practice and better our lives is important. But changing our outer circumstances is also important, which includes material circumstances, social relations, political-economic social structures, etc. It should be pointed out that I don't think society can't be 'fixed' and I don't think we can make the world a utopia; but political engagement and addressing the material needs of people can help to relieve some suffering and help make the world a more conducive place to practice the Dhamma. Too much suffering makes our lives a hell realm, and how can someone in hell practice the Dhamma? Even the Buddha realized the connection between the material and the spiritual and the suffering of people. For examples, there's the case of DN 5, where the brahmin Kutadanta asks the Buddha for advice on how to best conduct a great sacrifice. Kutadanta, who was evidently wealthy, had been given a village and some land by King Bimbisara, which he ruled as a king himself. On being asked by Kutadanta — who had a legion of animals waiting to be slaughtered — how to perform a great sacrifice, the Buddha answered with a fable about a great king who asks his chaplain a similar question. Long story short, the king (i.e., the state), who'd amassed great personal wealth but whose kingdom was "beset by thieves" and "infested with brigands," is told by his chaplain that taxing the people, executing and imprisoning them, or simply banishing them from the land won't solve his kingdom's problems, and is given this advice: "To those in the kingdom who are engaged in cultivating crops and raising cattle, let Your Majesty distribute grain and fodder; to those in trade, give capital; to those in government service assign proper living wages. Then those people, being intent on their occupations, will not harm the kingdom. Your Majesty's revenues will be great, the land will be tranquil and not beset by thieves, and the people, with joy in their hearts, will play with their children, and will dwell in open houses."
    • The reason I lament not ordaining when I was younger is because the model of monastic life takes away some of the suffering and barriers to practicing. Instead of constantly worrying about a paycheck and rent, with most of my time being devoted to working so someone else can make a profit and fulfilling societal obligations, there would be more time for meditation, study, and learning from other monastics. If I could live as a monk in this worldly life, I would. But it's not very conducive to it without the time and money needed to make the space. For me, it's mentally and physically fatiguing and I have little time or energy for studying or meditating to any serious degree. In a monastic setting, there's less concern with working and paying bills and everything else that occupies a householder's thoughts and time. A communal, monastic life is quite a different thing, and I think in many ways it's much healthier. Even in monasteries where monks work, the focus isn't the exploitation of labour to squeeze every last ounce of profit from it, but the bare minimum for self-sufficiency. For me, the issue isn't suffering from having less in that case, as it's not material possessions or an abundance of food that I care about. I can do without. I have spent a lot of time at monasteries, whether for extended retreats or living at them when I had the intention of ordaining after giving away all of my possessions. I didn't follow through at the time, and I regret it to some degree, because there was a lot of happiness for me there. And sadly, because of my curreny material conditions, I don't have the same amount of time to devote to such extended stays.
    • Circling back, I have a fair amount of personal experience with both a monastic and householder life, and I can say with some confidence that the material conditions I've found myself in over the years has contributed a great deal to my mental and physical wellbeing and suffering; and I think anyone who denies this is more often than not quite comfortable in their life. Very few people I've met on the streets have been free from suffering or even content simply being free from wage-labour and possessions. I certainly was not when I was living out of my car. But I did find a fair level of contentment when I was able to live without possessions etc. in a monastic setting. So the context can matter greatly.
    • When your life depends on having a certain amount of money, especially when you have dependents who depend on you, material lack and external pressures of an exploitative socio-economic system can and likely will negatively impact your mental and physical health.
    lobsterVastmind
  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    Namasté @Jason, it certainly wasn’t my intent to cause you dukkha. I had the good fortune to do well in my employment while younger, and perhaps not everyone is so fortunate.

    When you have dependents there are stresses that come with that, for sure. It is a life choice to have a wife and children and provide for the next generation.

  • @Jason I sincerely apologise for my well-intentioned but obviously unskilful post. Good for you for standing your ground.

  • JasonJason God Emperor Arrakis Moderator

    No worries, the amount of dukkha was minimal. It was mostly a joke re: the thought of responding to long replies. I know everyone means well.

    In general, I'm doing better these days financial than I have at any time in the past, although I'm still not making what I'd consider a living wage in a city with unaffordable rents. And I find it very frustrating having worked in multiple states and industries, just not the right ones I guess. (And my dependents are my partner and 2 pets, no children. 👧🐕🐈‍⬛) My main point, though, was really about the impact of external/material conditions on our lives and mental health.

    In Buddhism, there's a big focus on the mind and how it relates to experience with an emphasis on preventing the second arrow of suffering we experience due to painful bodily and mental feelings. And those techniques are quite effective. However, I've found that in my experience, the more involved/invested I am in worldly life, the harder it is for me to let go, practice equanimity, or any of the things that prevent myself being pierced by that second arrow. So I feel the weight of things moreso than when I had more time to practice and go on extended retreats. I just don't have the time or ability with the amount I work and all of the other things I'm responsible for. It's a trade off, but I've accepted that I'm a householder and not a monk, so more of my focus is now on working to make that life more materially comfortable and conducive to ease and happiness and the ability to practice for myself and others. And looking at the world, I think capitalism has contributed to an increase in depression and anxiety, environmental degradation, consumerist culture that feeds our greed, difficulties in monastic communities supporting themselves/being supported by the community, etc.

    marcitkoVastmind
  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    For those interested in mental health and developments in that field, here is the Mental Elf, part of the UK’s “national elf service”, a series of newsletters tracking the practice and state of medicine across the health industry. The name is a bit of a pun, I think…

    https://www.nationalelfservice.net/category/mental-health/

  • Dear friends,

    Be mad! Job done. Next?

  • VastmindVastmind Memphis, TN Veteran
    edited November 2023

    Being the work horses/labor slaves for the haves in this country is mentally and physically exhausting and a struggle, to say the least.

    No amount of meditation fixes that kind of shit. Period. Even the best of prayers go unanswered when it comes to someone making money at your expense.

    If you know, you know.

    @Jason …. I hear ya….and I feel ya. ❤️. Life IS short, don’t let ‘em get all of you. Find and make the moments that belong to you. Take care of you for me.

    lobsterJeroenShoshin1
  • personperson Don't believe everything you think The liminal space Veteran

    @Vastmind said:
    Being the work horses/labor slaves for the haves in this country is mentally and physically exhausting and a struggle, to say the least.

    No amount of meditation fixes that kind of shit. Period. Even the best of prayers go unanswered when it comes to someone making money at your expense.

    If you know, you know.

    @Jason …. I hear ya….and I feel ya. ❤️. Life IS short, don’t let ‘em get all of you. Find and make the moments that belong to you. Take care of you for me.

    Its kind of hard to put myself in your shoes. I've been fully independent working for clients for a couple decades now, before then I was largely left alone to do my work. Even as a teenager I worked weekend mornings at a fast food joint with 2-3 other people where we ran the show.

    I do sometimes work for people now, and have in the past, who want to micro manage what I do. Telling me how to do my work and what I'm doing wrong. This is very stressful and makes me not want to work for them and often leads to some sort of conversation to stop the behavior.

    They say that one of the big factors in determining how happy one is at work is how much independence one has in how they conduct their moment to moment work. For example, janitors often score high on job satisfaction compared to other workers when companies are surveyed.

    I have know people with shitty bosses or bad work environments who have changed work places and its made a big difference in their level of happiness.

    So yeah, environment is important

  • JeroenJeroen Luminous beings are we, not this crude matter Netherlands Veteran

    @Vastmind said:
    Being the work horses/labor slaves for the haves in this country is mentally and physically exhausting and a struggle, to say the least.

    No amount of meditation fixes that kind of shit. Period. Even the best of prayers go unanswered when it comes to someone making money at your expense.

    My approach has always been to do what I love doing. Whether that’s been graphic design, engineering, software development, technical directing, as long as I’ve been able to find joy and enthusiasm in it I’ve done it with pleasure. Then as long as you get paid decently, it doesn’t matter so much whether you’re wealthy or not.

    lobster
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