My experience with prayer, I say short ones before meditation sessions, meals and going to bed and I've had periods in my practice where I'd spend 30-40 minutes daily saying set prayers more than meditation.
I think they take affect in the mind, slowly adjusting motivation and outlook. Something like how doing anything else on the regular might. The Dalai Lama says something regarding prayer about how its important to pay attention to the words and take them in otherwise you might as well just play a tape recorder.
For example, my meditation prayer that I recite 3 times is "Until enlightenment I take refuge in the Buddha, the Dharma and the Sangha. Through the merits of this practice may I free my mind from greed, hatred and ignorance so I may be of benefit to beings". I got into Buddhism just to sort my own stuff out, and I still search for peace and insight for personal reasons. But when I think about any spiritual qualities I may possess its almost always in relation to how it can be of benefit to those I come into contact with in my life.
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My beard and moustache have gone almost completely gray. I have been shaving my head for about 15 years now, so I'm not sure how much brown would be there if I grew it out.
Happy Birthday Federica!
Walker
Hartelijk gefeliciteerd Federica!
Jeroen
There are some white hairs in my moustache, I noticed this morning while I was trimming it. That didn’t used to be the case last year, when I last trimmed it. I’m slowly going white!
Jeroen
@IdleChater said:
@federica said:
The answer is always no, if no means no. No matter who, why, or where.Quite right
Rape is the most inhuman and degrading, humiliating indignity any one person can brutally inflict on another.
Yes, and I have up-close-and-personal experience that confirms this.
Me too.
The answer to the question that you're probably asking yourself, is, yes, I was.
Idem
And the VAST majority of perpetrators are men, raping women.
And I guess I fall into that statistically insignificant minority
You have my wholehearted, unconditional, and unwavering support. I actually belong to a local organisation that counsels men who have been subject to abuse. I never assume nor presume that men are exempt from such treatment.
Done.
🙏
federica
My progress with white hairs is thankfully slow - I would hastily add I sport neither moustache nor beard - but people keep asking me if I dye my hair! The infernal cheek!
I have today accomplished 68 circuits around the sun; I shall embark on my 69th tomorrow... that's enough to turn any head, white!!
federica
@federica said:
The answer is always no, if no means no. No matter who, why, or where.
Quite right
Rape is the most inhuman and degrading, humiliating indignity any one person can brutally inflict on another.
Yes, and I have up-close-and-personal experience that confirms this.
The answer to the question that you're probably asking yourself, is, yes, I was.
And the VAST majority of perpetrators are men, raping women.
And I guess I fall into that statistically insignificant minority
Which reveals the sobering reality that the dating pool for hetero women, also contains their most dangerous predator.
I would say that hetero women have their own predatory instincts, too. I've known a few.
Anyway, this convo has gone from impropriety, to rape, and I'm not down for that.
Done.
Local newspaper writing about an upcoming supernova category 1a -extremely rare- which will be visible from Earth. Of course in 23,000 years. The stars are located 150 light years away from us so no amargeddon yet.
"They occur, the research center adds, when a white dwarf exceeds the Chandrasekhar limit—the maximum it can withstand without collapsing under its own gravity—triggering a gigantic nuclear explosion equivalent to more than a quadrillion nuclear bombs.
Many years ago, it was predicted that the merger of two white dwarfs, whose total mass exceeded this stability limit, could be the origin of most Type 1a supernovae, but this is the first time astronomers have found a system that will clearly end as a Type 1a supernova."
I have searched Chandrasekkhar's limit and it is fascinating what Physics is finding out from our world. What an age to live in! All this knowledge is so vast!
Kotishka