I'm 6' 1'' & do the same except I skip lunch whenever my weight rises above 185 lbs. and only resume eating lunches again when my weight drops back below that threshold. It's not Buddhist in the traditional sense but is gentler in its daily time spacing when fasting is being called for.
Since my diet is pretty healthy (Ovo Lacto vegetarian and usually local & organic) my weight is** best** controlled by being mindful that any meal's true volume matches what I really need over what I want, along with a general avoidance of snacking between meals. Being careful of my sugar/salt and fat intake also seems to help.
In addition to daily walks and bike riding, on every even-numbered day, I do a half hour of weight exercising at a gym, and on odd-numbered days it's a cardio-taxing hill climb.
All of this just allows me some mobility that many of my peers are no longer able to match but time eventually evens out everyone's physical & mental differences.
how
Emptiness which is conceptually liable to be mistaken for sheer nothingness is, in fact, the reservoir of infinite possibilities.
~D.T. Suzuki
I came across this…
https://www.theguardian.com/world/2023/jun/06/whistleblower-ufo-alien-tech-spacecraft
And it seemed interesting that The Guardian would publish it, the guy must have a pretty good reputation. Maybe there is something to this UFO malarkey after all…
Jeroen
“Truth is greater than all the parts joined together. It is not just the sum of the parts, it is greater than the parts. A melody is not just the sum of all the notes, of all the sounds. … I am speaking to you: you can dissect my words, they will all be found in a dictionary, but you won’t find me in a dictionary.”
—Osho, ‘The Mustard Seed’
Jeroen
So here is a question for you: say you have lived a meditative life and followed the dharma, been peaceful, generally an advanced practitioner. Then when you are 70 you get Alzheimer’s and you become grumpy, cantankerous, and you start hitting your wife. What has happened to that peaceful practitioner? Is all that you’ve worked on gone, was it just a thin surface layer?
According to neuroscience the seven parts of the brain control
Thoughts and decisions.
Memories and emotions.
Movements (motor function), balance and coordination.
Perception of various sensations including pain.
Automatic behavior such as breathing, heart rate, sleep and temperature control.
Regulation of organ function.
Speech and language functions.
Also one has to take into account what happens to the brains of Alzheimer’s sufferers, its gradual deterioration...which includes the part of the brain which controls the central nervous system for example....
The hypothalamus handles information that comes from the autonomic nervous system. It plays a role in controlling functions such as eating, sexual behavior and sleeping; and regulates body temperature,emotions, secretion of hormones and movement.
No doubt there's also a Karmic element to it...bearing in mind karma is neither good or bad it's just results of past ( this life or past lives) actions...
And in a sense we are just vibrating bundles of energy flux held together by karmic glue...the physical part (the part which we need to communicate with other sentient beings) is prone to deterioration...making communication difficult...
The more we can understand what the person with Alzheimer’s is going through, may assist us in how we react to their often 'incontrollable' nature...
It must be a very scary time for them...and their loved ones...
Shoshin1
To abstain from evil
To cultivate the good
And to purify the mind
This is the teaching of the Buddhas
Dhammapada v.183
Bunks
How deep does Dharma go?
How deep does life go?
Same question.
Fathomless
When you begin to understand that life, your life, extends from your deepest core within to envelope the entire universe, you will have a a glint of a glimmer of the depths of the Dharma.
Good hunting.
Peace to all.
“If you are unable to find the truth right where you are, where else do you expect to find it?”
― Dogen
Kotishka
The last time I was in India was in 1997, and I remember staying in a little apartment next to the burning ghats where all the cremations were held. There was at least toilet paper. But I never did go to the Buddhist places of pilgrimage.
Jeroen
With the barbecues, the conference, the weird sleep schedule etc., I have not been very disciplined with my eating for the past week. So I was afraid I had put on weight - and even felt fatter. But to my amazement this morning the scale showed that I have LOST an additional 1kgs. Very happy about that! 6kgs down, 14kgs more to go
My method is very simple - eat clean ("don't eat stupid shit") and exercise. I try to exercise daily but in practice that comes out to around 3/5ths of days. I am interpreting the fact that I feel fatter as a psychological readiness for losing more weight.
Today I am going to a) take a cold shower and meditate b) have lunch with my mother c) cycle to a shop that works on Sundays to buy a birthday present - which will be my sport for the day and d) go to a friend's son's birthday party.
My job is to allow and accept uncomfortable feelings (primarily anxiety) and be OK with not being OK at times. If that does now work - just label and accept - it's no big deal.
I listened to a podcast yesterday with an American CEO whom I did not particularly like but he did say one thing worth emulating: "I am consistently consistent - that's my secret". I am not consistent but would very much like to be. I did have a phase of about 2 years about 4 years ago when I was - and this was my best phase in the last decade. It's like consistency is a muscle, like everything else, you do do do do, and it becomes easier and second nature. And your overall functioning and wellbeing improves dramatically.
I put down on paper yesterday the things which I would need to let go of in order to lead a clean life. Leading a clean life is something which I would very much like to do. If nothing else, it leads to a clean conscience, but I know it has much wider positive consequences. My reaction was that the things I need to let go of are not that big or difficult - at least in theory 