“I suddenly saw that the real meaning of forgiveness is that there is absolutely no one and nothing to forgive. It doesn't matter how often you seem to be wrong, or what you do or don't do. It doesn't matter how much you look for or not. There is only this being. It's unconditional love.”
— Tony Parsons
Jeroen
The Zen stick that one asks for can sometimes be compared to the bar of soap on the prison washroom's floor that is better left alone.
Because no one knows how to pull our chain like our own ego, a successful meditation practice is less about pulling back against the force of its pull and is more about letting go of that chain's hold over you.
Each nano moment offers all of us a choice of how we relate to our ego's control over us. The entirety of any practice is only really measurable by how we relate to this pull in this present moment.
Take comfort in the endless opportunity that each single moment of practice offers and an inexhaustible grace from suffering's grasp can unfold...just one nano second of effort at a time.
how
Took a 20 minute walk outside, did a round of push ups and sit ups. Not sure how long I sat for but it was more than usual. There's a little resistant feeling. The jig is up, we're getting healthier and building a floor to being unhealthy. The denizens of the deep cry out in protest but there's no hard line or tough guy enforcing anything, just paying more attention to the results of my actions. I show them some truth and they will come around to appreciating the feeling of better actions.
I think you're right in that utilizing perceptions (along with the other four aggregates) is an important part of the path. But it's not about having the 'correct' perceptions so much as cultivating certain perceptions, mind-states, and insights which bring one closer to removing craving, not-self identifying with them, and ultimately realizing awakening (e.g., AN 4.49 , AN 6.63, AN 7.46, SN 22.47, SN 27.10, etc.).
Jason
Good progress guys! Keep it up. Maybe worth re-assessing your goals? Up to you. Finding a balance between setting something achievable but also pushing ourselves is tricky.
Bunks
What one seeks one already is!
Holy sugar plum fairies. Exactly so! ONE already is, what one seeks!
I knew it was simple.
In essence, stated so many ways. Realised it becomes, or rather we become the lotus jewel.
It is a flowering and also a crystallisation of our being … 
AUM MANI PEME HUM HRI
(I prefer PEME to PADMI, AUM to OM and HRI as an addition, pronounced REE and meaning ‘make it so’ as used by Captain Luc Picard to ‘Engage’ …) 🪷🌞🖖
lobster
@FleaMarket said:
So I guess the question is what to do about it?
The other thing to be clear about is that “seeing the world as it is” carries with it a revolution in thinking. All at once, the impact of right view is felt throughout one’s thinking.
Jeroen
what to do about it.
The most difficult course of action is inaction or in Buddhist terms non-action, or Taoism - Wu Wei. Doing nothing, apathy, a giving up nihilism, is the dank side. Rather we do as we always do but with increasing perception/wisdom comes:
I could say less … 
lobster
@FleaMarket said:
Perceiving the world as it really is, is a critical component necessary for wisdom.
Such perception, being a result of enlightenment, seeing things as-they-are, will provide wisdom.
Concentration and mindfulness practice helps with this. Though it isn't enough to perceive it as it really is. There has to be an understanding of sorts. Or the way it's stuck in my head, what to do about it.
So I guess the question is what to do about it?
Nothing. After enlightenment, there's really nothing left to do. Simply rest. I would see it as constant samadhi. I suppose you could teach. If you wanted to. Teaching from the experience of, let's call it, seeingasis, would be a hot commodity.
Move to Boulder. Or Sedona. We could use some help in the Carolinas.
Hire Lobster to coin your mantra. Maybe they're a terton, and you could have them compose a sadhana too!.