Hurt people hurt people. Some things are best not paid forward. Break the chain of hurt. Be the one to squash it. Don't let it carry on through you to someone else.
@FleaMarket said:
It could be a moon being pointed to or maybe an ocean of varying depths.

… meanwhile …
Adyashanti also says something like that, that enlightenment is more akin to a shift in perspective. But he doesn’t call it easy, and has talked a lot about the consequences, aftermath, temporary and sometimes halfway nature of it.
It is all ocean dependent on moon tides. Sometimes deep. Sometimes lagoons. We swim differently according to where we are.
Relax, you are in the ocean. It is not god, nirvana or drowning. It swims through us just as we swim.
lobster
The first step to peace in the outer world
Is a commitment to harmlessness.
Not just to want peace,
But to be peace.
Set the example
And inspire others.
Walk the way first,
And then make yourself known.
Jeroen
Life is an enigma
You have a lifetime to work on it
But don't stress
You are here now
"War and Peace," they say.
When everyone wants "a piece,"
how can there be peace?
Here: "Make peace, not war."
Easy to say; hard to live.
No "piece;" then there's peace.
Peace is our goal
Peace is our mission
Peace is a simple task
Peace is the hardest task
But we must always be striving for Peace
Not the pauses between wars
Peace with no wars, save the ones we constantly fight within
(Where we truly strive for peace)
What is Progress?
Progress is measurable
Progress is ephemeral and can not be measured
Progress is never lineal
Knowledge is not progress - it is merely knowledge
Wisdom and compassion are progress of themselves
If you are better, stronger, greater within yourself, you have made progress
Progress is visible
Progress is unseen
Progress is knowing you/we have much further to go and are willing to proceed
Progress is in trying
Progress is getting back up
Progress is always taking the very next step...
Peace to all
I had a dream… my body energy was burning… and when i woke, my body literally felt like it was burning! This lasted several seconds and then it faded.
Jeroen
When irritated the answer is almost always to let go.
Look deeply, pay attention to your first impression but don’t always be satisfied with it.
We are all one with the great universe.
So treat everyone you meet like God in drag (Ram Dass).
Have the courage to stand by your conviction when your goals are noble.
Don’t be afraid to change your mind when you discover your goals are less than noble.
All spiritual thought is beautiful if you let it move freely.
The world would not be without you, you are an integral part, so respect yourself.
Sing, dance, create, celebrate your existence!
It is not the destination but the journey that is worthwhile.
Jeroen
“In mystical traditions, it is one's own readiness that makes experiences exoteric or esoteric.
The secret isn't that you're not being told.
The secret is that you're not able to hear.”
― Ram Dass
Jeroen