It is an interesting thing, that practice as a buddhist seems to require a high level of discipline. I remember when I just started my buddhist studies and had a regular practice, and discipline was tricky but I managed.
Now, quite a few years later, I am feeling more natural. If the feeling to meditate comes, then I meditate. But the feeling of discipline has entirely disappeared, I don’t seem to be able to access it anymore. The drive to meditate every morning is gone.
I appreciate the relaxed feeling of being natural. Sometimes I enjoy a little just-sitting.
Jeroen
“Many people dedicate their lives to actualizing a concept of what they should be like, rather than actualizing themselves. This difference between self-actualization and self-image actualization is very important. Most people live only for their image.”
― Bruce Lee
Jeroen
I think one of the major dangers of any school that's faith/devotional in practice, especially when it's leaders/guru or master lack any objective oversight mechanisms, is how poorly able its members can be at recognizing their own cognitive dissidence or cult like behaviors, despite what ever suffering results from it..
how
This is quite long but hopefully addresses the original question:
https://tricycle.org/magazine/psychology-awakening/
lobster
@lobster said:
What is the right thing to do in this situation according to Buddhism?
Wake up or dream your life away? Which would anyone choose? 🙏🏽
"I slept and dreamt I was a butterfly...Then I awoke; and wondered, was I a butterfly dreaming it was a man?"
federica

Nationalism rising in Ukraine. Thanks Mr Putin. Mr Bandera is now a fashion item even!
"Vicious mindless violence that offers nothing new
Left wing violence, right wing violence, all seems much the same
Bully boys out fighting, it's just the same old game
Boring fucking politics that'll get us all shot
Left wing, right wing, you can stuff the lot
Keep your petty prejudice, I don't see the point
Anarchy and freedom is what I want."
Crass - White Punks on Hope
Kotishka