“Your very search for safety and joy keeps you away from them. Stop searching, cease losing. The disease is simple and the remedy equally simple. It is your mind only that makes you insecure and unhappy. Anticipation makes you insecure, memory — unhappy. Stop misusing your mind and all will be well with you.”
— Nisargadatta Maharaj
Jeroen
I was just watching this on Netflix, and found it quite tough to get through. Mainly because it implies that we are being lied to on a grand scale. The docu sets out how modern brands use planned obsolescence and wasting to pump more product into the system without looking at the end-of-life of what they make. They spoil and throw any goods they can’t sell. Everything from shoes to clothes to electronics to food packaging to cars are not recyclable, and there is a kind of waste chain, where waste gets sent to places where people pay with their health to take them apart (because it is cheap). But the brands also hide their behaviour. Then there are large scale uses of greenwashing, the process of making token attempts at being “green” while in fact not caring and putting profits first.
Profoundly shocking.
Jeroen
I think all our thoughts are highly tied to our emotional state. Do we think about the future or the past? If we think about the past do we dwell on positive or negative memories? If our emotional state changes our thoughts change.
I think it could be thought of as a type of karma, propelling us into the next moment.
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Ornaments for today's Christmas tree.
Perhaps, memory as emotional residue is just an observable effect for the meditator.
To the degree that it patterns how we respond to any phenomena, is the same degree that our freedom & potential spontaneity in that nanosecond is limited.
To the degree that it no longer patterns how we respond to phenomena is the same degree that phenomena can instead be met with equanimity.
A Merry Buddmas to all.
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grace of time
event and time. in a moment an xperience happens. that x-perience collapse in our memory or dies down to our sobstrate/subconscious brain. depending on the effect of the x-perience it is forgetten or linger brought back to conscious awareness.
but the grace of time is buddha awareness. to resolve the e-xperience. if it was a positive experience accnowledge it. a negative experience forgive and learn that memory.yes time moves you fowared called grace of time heal a wound. with more awareness of time and change the past experience will continue change your human bodhi nature.
so i do a life review in the new year. what i regret what i can change. but during the bardo state there might be a life review like in near death experience. in an essense the three e state. the life review is enter, empathy, and enlighten your experience and the other persons emotional state.
so i try to be kind and nice to people now. if in my bardo life review i can expect how it affect my conscios aware state with no body brain process. it is amazing conscious space need no brain. samsara universe is wonders of wonders .ty Love giver sammy
Is there such a thing as control of thought and emotion? I doubt it; I think there is only transformation in response to insight and understanding. And perhaps there is also repression, which we might mistake for control.
Thus have I heard:
Through cultivating a friendship with awareness, practices like meditation (mindfulness in particular), we learn to either flow with or let go of our thoughts. As the saying goes, we are what we think... but we are not our thoughts.
In other words, the thought itself is the thinker, and the psychophysical phenomenon we call the self can become either the slave or the master of thought.
Ultimately, this depends on the depth of our awareness.
This intrinsically knowing aspect of awareness observes the arising and passing of thoughts.
Awareness is fundamentally non-conceptual before thinking splits experience into subject and object.
It is empty, and thus it can contain everything. It is boundless. And, amazingly, it is intrinsically knowing.
Shoshin1
@Jeroen said:
@Shoshin1 said:
...And if our thoughts change so do our emotions...
It's part and parcel of the push me pull you puppet on a string (of thoughts and emotions) thing called living.But what comes first, thoughts or emotions? I’m very much a thought-first person, I find that my thoughts arise in response to impulses from the world, and emotions come in response to thoughts.
I haven't been able to find a beginning. I think of it as falling into dependent coarising, like two cards holding each other up. Emotions give rise to particular thought patterns, thoughts direct and reinforce emotions.
If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change
By doing so, one's awareness takes control and can start to rearrangeIs there such a thing as control of thought and emotion? I doubt it; I think there is only transformation in response to insight and understanding. And perhaps there is also repression, which we might mistake for control.
From my perspective there is the control of conditioning, what we spend our time and energy towards is reflected in our natural tendencies. And there is the control of awareness, when we're aware that our minds are headed in a particular direction we can use that information to intentionally steer our thinking in another direction. We act from our values rather than react from our emotions. Much of CBT work is this sort of control.
You're right to be wary of repression. Mindful awareness gives us a third way outside of repression or embracing. We hold it mindfully and allow it to come and go.
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...And if our thoughts change so do our emotions...
It's part and parcel of the push me pull you puppet on a string (of thoughts and emotions) thing called living.
If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change
By doing so, one's awareness takes control and can start to rearrange
Shoshin1
“Thinking serves to sustain you, keep you alive and achieve a goal. But on the moment that goal has been achieved, it is no longer intended for anything. A bird that wants to fly at the top of the tree uses its wings. When he is above, he does not continue to fly, but sits down, folds his wings and relaxes. Well, thoughts are like wings: they lead you to the goal but when that is achieved: 'Ah, yes now I see it', then wings become redundant and then there are no more thoughts.”
— Wolter Keers
Jeroen