How does one perceive how they would like to be perceived without attachment?
@Bunks posted this in another thread, which I think provides some food for thought...

"You can please some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time" and this so it would seem, includes one 'self'...
Shoshin1
I hope we are helping?
Not me of course, I could not help a chicken cross a road … but some great replies everyone … 
lobster
That's right...we are now conquering the world island by island.
We already have Miami and Barcelona in our possession
@FleaMarket said:
Why not both?
oh at least … perhaps on Tuesdays.
@Alex said:
How do I combat this ? Take the best things from different practices. I talk with and pray to God. I chant with a Hare Krishna friend and group. I meditate and attend online Buddhist meditation groups. Pure land Buddhism has a deity, a realm and chanting. There’s a temple in Malvern - Bright Earth - online zoom meetings and ceremonies.
Ah ha! You can have your pie and slice it anyway you like … though sideways would be a little strange …
As a farmer former Muslim, I still pray like so:
Allah yAk-bar which means 'COD is Grated' … from what I remember.
I like god, she is a fine woman Real Imaginary Friend of Ms Allah. I consider myself a dreadful Buddhist and a hopeless Dread. I & I.

lobster
In my youth though I would spend hours immersed in fantasy worlds, not only reading stories but in D&D creating characters, stories and whole worlds.
Tsk, tsk. You used to be human?
Once upon a time ... roll 8 sided dice
Game on.
lobster
I don’t get the whole Marvel comic / superhero stuff.
I work in IT and have to listen to grown men discuss the latest Star Wars / Avengers etc films.
I’m polite but I am always tempted to remind them they’re not 9 years old anymore.
Anyways, each to their own…..
Bunks
No doubt we have all been there...
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