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Your first encounter with dharma
What was your first encounter with dharma?
I was about 10 years old and was watching an episode of "Batman: The Animated Series". In this particular episode of the show, Bruce Wayne traveled to Japan to train under his martial arts master. Sometime during the episode, he is shown meditating. Being 10 years old, I decided that I too would meditate, even though I didn't know how to do it. For about a year, I emulated what I saw on that particular episode off and on. Around the same time, I had a friend who was really into Bruce Lee. He saw me trying to meditate and gave me some of Bruce's books to read. Though Bruce wasn't particularly a "Buddhist", his philosophy was greatly influenced by Dharma. In fact, his book the "Tao of Jeet Kune Do" begins with the 8 fold path and explanations of Zen philosophy with concern to martial arts.
I know it's rather silly, but without that episode, I don't think I would have developed such an interest in dharma! "Batman meditates, so I must also meditate!" lol.
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As for Buddhism, i went to Thailand many years back and noticed how peaceful and calm the monks looked and lived. and i thought 'wow, id love to live like these people'
something just felt 'right' watching them.
Whilst there, there was a tornado in the distance. and a few people were panicking. A buddhist monk walk past me and said very calmly, 'wow,would you look at that, if it comes nearer, make sure u hold on tight to something, then laughed gently..'
minutes later, the tornado seem to disapear, and i asked him ''you seemed very calm then, have you seen one of them before?
NEVER! he replied.. and walk off.
His calm presence was unreal..
since then ive been on retreats, dharma talks and met up with many different buddhist traditions.
these days id say im 'more' attracted to the Zen and Tao way of life..
I think....
Right around that same time, my friend's Japanese mother taught me a little about chanting and Buddhism... I was already delving into Paganism but always incorporated a little Buddhism into my Pagan path.
Here I am, 40 years (YIKES!!) later, and Buddhism is my main path now for a few years.
it's a question that has followed me my whole life.
I didn't go in, but I had a profound sense of presence, peace and tranquility. That was 40 years ago and that impression has stuck with me ever since.
Zen flesh, Zen bones challenged me to look beyond my conditioning to find out what it might be.
When I felt a little better I picked up Kathleen McDonalds book about meditation. So I had my first taste of meditation and it was like an oasis in my day of depression.
When we visited, I would often be reading on rainy days. Over the years I read this book many times from under ten onward.
Thanks uncle :bowdown:
But what really drove my interest to study the dharma was when I asked my 6th grade Catholic school teacher about whether Buddhists and Hindus could go to heaven.
We used to pass around a little milk carton to collect money for the starving kids in India - and having read that they are mostly Buddhists and Hindus, I was concerned for their souls, as I didn't learn yet what happened to Buddhist and Hindu souls - and I asked my teacher if they could still go to heaven.
My teacher replied, "if they are good little Hindus and Buddhists, of course they'll go to heaven."
And I said, "that's good, because I was thinking about becoming a Buddhist and still want to go to heaven."
Then she said, "you are already aware of the one true religion, other religions are ignorant, so you cannot become a Buddhist and go to heaven."
In my head I thought, "fuck you, who are you to say that there is only one true religion!"
Out of defiance I decided to become Buddhist - and so started my sincere journey - and 35 years later, getting into heaven is no longer my concern...
I was a bit obsessed/enamored by it for the next three years, & read through most of it without understanding it (I was also a kid who was fascinated with the 'occult' and 'outsider' culture).
One of my highschool teachers recommended Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance and I believe I read a little bit of it. It doesn't have a whole lot to do with Buddhism, actually, but it did include some basic ideas that at the time, I didn't really want to hear. I ended up not reading it due to some odd but nonetheless great aversion to that book.
I should probably go back and read/reread both of those!
Both books need re-reading a few times to get a grip of them properly. In amongst all the other things we need to do :-/
:nyah:
Then I was called naughty and sent to bed for making a mess on the kitchen floor...
And Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance was recommended by a friend.
Many books and articles since then, but those two set the stage for me.