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Being a Buddhist doesn't mean renouncing social engagement.
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Namaste
Thus, Buddhism, for me, invited me to a deeper engagement with ecology and the environment, including, above all, the human ecology. Working with those earliest HIV/AIDS patients reinforced my view that we must listen to and respond to the wounded and vulnerable - and that Buddhist practice enhances that ability to listen, hear and respond affirmatively and with compassion.
Whilst not wishing to play down the importance that some Buddhist attach to their personal practice, it is my view that unless we engage with others and the world around us, we risk betraying the deep message of the moment that the Shakyamuni Buddha decided to go out into the world to teach the ending of dukkha.
Like @Simonthepilgrim I come from a Christian background (way back). However, I still fall back on much of Jesus's teachings, some of which include getting out there to show compassion, render assistance, and as importantly, be a light to the world and set an example. There is the quote often attributed to St. Francis of Assisi: "Preach the gospel, and when you have to, use words".
AMEN to that!
*throws hand up*.....(having a church moment)
Therefore, what applies to them as individuals will apply to the world at large.
Yes and no. For the lay practitioner, there is dana/generosity and sila/virtue. One can be a socially engaged Buddhist, Christian, Muslim or atheist.
For the bhikkhus/monastics/serious practioners there is some form of disengagement from the world and things pertaining to the world. That is transcendence.
That is the path that the noble ones walk on.
Reading Thich Nhat Hanh was very useful in this redirection.
Very good article Jason.
The other point I need to make is, there is nothing special about the path of the monks when it comes to the Dharma. I reject the belief that it takes renouncing the world and moving into a temple to become a Buddha. The Forth Noble Truth doesn't say "The way to eliminate suffering is to renounce the world and become a monk". The 8-Fold Path almost requires a normal, mundane life. And after all, the problem is our mind, and we take that with us wherever we go. You think becoming a monk gives someone a special ticket out of the struggles we face raising a family? Monks only trade one job and family and set of worries for another. They get as attached to their temple and Master and station in the temple as any guy in a suit trying to make the quarterly profit.
@Cinorjer
It appears you and I have very similar thoughts on this... This is why I often find myself completely unimpressed when I hear about this monk or that monk living in self-imposed isolation in order to meditate 20 hrs a day. What does that really accomplish as far as living the Dharma and making the world a better place? Nothing.
How difficult is it to live the Dharma when there is only you to worry about, only your stomach to feed, only your hut or cave to secure and have nothing else and no one else to consider- ever? Not very difficult.
Show me a lay person who 'lives the Dharma' (as best they can) while dealing with spouse, children, work, bills, and other daily responsibilities of community life- and I'll show you someone who really works the Dharma!
I appreciate what monks do, and yes, I even think they are still a necessity - as far as teaching the Dharma, and setting an example in the community. But there is room for improvement as well, and one thing I think would improve the community of monks (worldwide) would be to allow fully ordained female monks. (But that's another discussion).
I think there is much emphasis in speaking about things like interdependence but far less application in analysis. Both monastics and laity are of equal importance, as they are mutually dependent upon and supporting of one another. They aren’t enemies. They need each other. Both should be respected.
My first Zen teacher, Rev Young, liked to say "Trying to eliminate suffering by shutting yourself behind temple walls is like trying to avoid drowning by moving to the desert. It's better to learn how to swim."
I have great respect for the monks I've been privileged to know, at least the ones who chose the life as a calling. As leaders of the Sangha and guardians of the Dharma, they have devoted their lives to a difficult and unending task. The good ones were too busy helping others to spend a lot of time on their own meditation practice, and maybe those were the ones who really "got it".
in need of help. Who here has been homeless? Who here has gone to
sleep with an empty stomach? Who here has been cast away by society
for whatever reasons and then on top of all that, has no civil rights.
It's easy to say from a warm house, with food in the cupboard and a
check coming in. Easy to say when your the 'right' color. Funny how
interconnected only seems to apply to those who are comfortable. :rolleyes:
I'm done.
May all beings have happiness and the causes of happiness;
May all be free from sorrow and the causes of sorrow;
May all never be separated from the sacred happiness which is sorrowless;
And may all live in equanimity, without too much attachment and too much aversion,
And live believing in the equality of all that lives.
traditional buddhist prayer
I'm not sure who you were 'speaking to' regarding your comment...
Are you saying it's easier to criticize monks from a vantage point of comfort and security (an average layperson's life)? Or are you saying the opposite?
I'm confused... :eek2:
By the way :: raises hand::: I have been homeless, twice. Both times with three kids. I have been hungry in order to make sure my kids were fed. And I have had my utilities turned off (several times) in the past and made do with a wood burning fireplace and extra blankets. I wasn't Buddhist at the time, so I wasn't practicing the Dharma then, but like I said, I'm confused and don't understand what you meant by your comment.....
'... We can feed and cloth the needy and that's great, but it does not liberate them from samsara. '
Feeding and clothing people addresses their suffering. A state of suffering we
all could easily be in. It sure liberates them from feelings and states that alot
of middle class white westerners don't know about.
I do think there is a purpose for Monks....but I also think Buddhism is full
of people who are only worried about their own suffering and liberation.
I'm shocked at how people discuss compassion and being empty...yet
getting their hands dirty or participating in social change is just not on
their agenda... <<< This part not directed at Jeffrey.
Just people in general Buddhism who can talk the talk but
can't walk the walk. :grumble:
And yes, I agree re: "but I also think Buddhism is full
of people who are only worried about their own suffering and liberation.
I'm shocked at how people discuss compassion and being empty...yet
getting their hands dirty or participating in social change is just not on
their agenda... "
No we each donate as we have a feeling for. I donate to NAMI (national association of the mentally ill) because it is true to my heart. My Dad donates to the food pantry. I don't have to figure out if food is more important to sanity because I am doing what I am called to do.
Similarly some people are called to give dharma teachings and some people materials or fearlessness.
Peace with each step. Each being contributing in the way that they openly give generosity. No force to donate only freely given. We are all on the same team but we have different callings.
I wasn't comparing the engagement...I was calling out those who don't
engage at all. (second part of my post)
I eventually came across the concept of one's Circle of Influence/Concern, and I believe it's very helpful regarding how one should approach social engagement. I think I've brought this up before, so apologies if I sound like a broken record, but it's really great!
I think many of us sometimes feel overwhelmed when we look at samsara and think about how to relieve the suffering of others. The Circle of Influence/Concern suggests that we just work on what we can in our current state of influence/power... grasping for a higher goal is unnecessary and even unadvised, as it would perpetuate suffering. Eventually, our Circle of Influence will grow and we can address more of the things in our Circle of Concern.
As @Jeffrey mentioned about the Ten Oxherding Pictures, helping others comes at the end. Our Circle of Influence starts with ourselves.
However, I think the original line of thinking here was that some of us find no 'admiration' for those whose entire Buddhist 'practice' is enclosed in a bubble of meditation and seclusion... like those monks whose claim to fame is living in a cave for 10 years, or on a mountaintop for decades chanting and meditating. Or the Buddhist lay person who seems totally self-involved in making sure they sit the cushion 4-6 hrs a day in order to 'free themselves from suffering' and find enlightenment, but haven't a clue what kind of suffering is going on right outside their front door. Those were the comparisons I was referring to and agreeing with.
who can't through no control of their own.....There are a ton of things
I can't do. What CAN you do? Little droplets of water make a mighty
ocean.
I thought we were talking along the lines that MaryAnne described above..
Good...I'm happy to hear that. I hope it makes people more aware...and yes, it's possible that they will be more likely to want to help.... To be real though.....tonglen doesn't put
food in your belly.....some practices/engagements are excellent for
mental support....once again...I thought we were discussing hands
on engagement and social change stuff....now...I'm confused....I guess
we all mean different things when we say 'engagement' and getting
involved. IMO, Buddhism has been for the middle class here...and they
seem fine with writing a check. Don't get me wrong...checks pay the
bills....but it also adds to the separation and duality that dis-connects
people. IMO. Looking someone in the eyes is harder to do from a
comfty spot. IMO.
It's hard to find volunteers....hard to find people to stick their neck out
for others'....Let's get something started here then.
Just a suggestion. I'm currently getting the projects together now
for our Temple...I'll post it on the Sangha thread, if anyone is interested.
Also, somebody coping with the demands of family and work life isn't going to have a lot of energy and time to do voluntary work, so I'm not sure of the point you're making.
Changing the laws and bucking the system in the name of helping
others? By the way everyone talks here....the protests and rallies should
be full of Buddhists, hahaha
This week our supreme court is STILL discussing whether state wide
Christian prayer in government meetings should be the norm...also
state voter ID? Just this week LGBT finally got a law passed that they
couldn't be fired....even though they could get married in some states
and could file taxes. In my state alone...TN has racial and LGBT issues...
FYI...getting an SSI check and any benefits are from social change some
people demanded and got passed for the benefit of the people.
Disability? Yep, that too. These programs we hold dear.
In Africa, your shit out of luck. No SSI check....for anything!
Well, honestly, I don't know anyone like that, in person, myself.
However, I have certainly 'met' many Buddhists exactly like that - on forums like this, chat rooms and blogs who are always espousing the 'need to meditate' for hours a day, and how they (and others) should always keep in mind the goal of enlightenment, etc etc, ad nauseam.
This is when Buddhism easily becomes a crutch of seclusion and self-absorption (IMO). Am I saying there is no point to meditation and spiritual goals for oneself? NO. I'm not saying that... I'm just saying there is a middle path, and too many people who claim to be 'devout' seem to be missing it. Again, YMMV.
You are sort of mixing the two points... I said people who live the Dharma while surviving in a work-a-day world raising a family, paying bills, having responsibilities etc, are really living the Dharma - and it's HARD. But it can be done and it has a positive affect on everyone around those people...
Someone sitting in a freakin' cave in the wilderness meditating and chanting doesn't have anything else to really 'challenge' his living the Dharma.... and who does it help, besides himself? No one really.
I wasn't including volunteering or charity work in either scenario
Job and family? Check. Got that. I work for Uncle Sam.
Hubby works out of town. No family help here. I also attend
temple and have started regular
trips to the monastery.
I take my children. How else would they learn?
My 17 yr old is now doing it on her own. 4-5 days
a month. My youngest two are already running fundraisers.
Look, I'm not trying to showboat here...but...
'Isn't going to have alot of energy'?.....
It's about setting priorities.....
or about remaining comfty.....
The diamond sutra: Being enlightened develops all of the skillful qualities of mind. Generosity is one of the paramitas of the Mahayana. There is no inherent barrier for students to refrain from helping others. The sangha is about dharma teachings and humanitarian aid is not prioritized. Instead the students find their causes on their own. The sangha works on the students heart and then if the (awakening) heart is illuminated it will send rays of compassion to other beings. The rays are the first five paramitas: generosity, ethics, patience, forbearance, joyful energy, and samadhi/concentration. The sun is the wisdom of emptiness to rid one of the afflictions of body/form, feeling (judging good/bad neutral), perception, sankhara/will/formations, and consciousness (5 senses and mind)
I don't think you are wrong @MaryAnne. Actually what you are saying is distorted aspirational bodhicitta of the bodhisattva path. We cannot be happy unless all beings are happy. I just don't think you understand the reason for living in a cave. Just think of it as they are becoming a dharma super hero (where's @lobster to explain this).. and going in the cave makes you have stronger dharma powers to give mindtraining to beings.
Giving a fish is not enough. We vow to save all beings from birth and death.
I'm not exactly 'judging' someone who sits in a cave and meditates for 10 yrs.
I'm evaluating the 'good' that it does for society or the world at large compared to someone who is out there, amongst people, living the Dharma, helping others and setting examples. IMO, one (the cave dweller) is a very self-centered endeavor, and the other much less so.
You said: " Actually what you are saying is distorted aspirational bodhicitta of the bodhisattva path."
Actually, I don't subscribe to the paths or traditions of Buddhism that 'mystifies' certain (questionably acceptable) behaviors as more spiritual than others. I'm a secular Buddhist, not concerned with religious callings, rewards or awards offered to the spiritually devout or 'elite' amongst Buddhists.
I'm not claiming that's all either right or wrong, only that it's not part of my practical vision of the worldly 'good' Buddhism can do.
Now if the cave dweller comes out of the cave and spends the rest of his life actually doing things for people, in his community and for society... that's a different story. But too often they remain secluded, behind temple walls, or within their own walls, all wrapped up in avoiding the world around them in order to "maintain" that inner peace, etc.
::: shrugs :::
I don't understand why liberation from suffering is not a good thing? It is also good from society as mind training develops all the good qualities and removes the 3 poisons (greed, anger, and delusion). How are you going to be of help in the community if you are greedy, angry, and deluded? You missed my points about mind training helping good works. The man/woman who has conquered their own minds has more power to help other beings rather than less.
Oh and you are judging the cave dweller as selfish.
I have much more admiration for the one who goes out and teaches the Dharma through good works and example, and little admiration for the Buddhist who sits the cushion behind closed doors and does nothing else.
More admiration for one, does not necessarily mean disdain or judgment for the other.
Because I choose chocolate over peanut butter, doesn't mean I 'hate' peanut butter.
46 secondary downfalls:
you are thumping the Buddhist Book at someone who doesn't believe in the religious/magical-thinking aspect of Buddhism.
You may as well be thumping the Torah or the Bible for all the good it will do to change my mind!
Most of the bodhisattva vows I bolded the number on are NOT mystical.