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Are you Wise?

lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran

I hope this is a wise question, whether it is answerable by our assessment is another question ... =)

I have found extraordinary insights from people here, across a range of ages from twelve upwards. Similarly people are not always older and wiser. They may be stuck in circular ignorance.

We could have a poll but self evaluation or opinions are indicative of preferences.

One of the benefits of youth and immaturity is feeling we have to share our wisdom and insight. However it may not be present. Sometimes it is how we hear what comes 'out of the mouths of babes'

Do you feel all teachers, monks and senior practitioners are wise? I don't. Similarly I have found wisdom in those who are not practitioners of Dharma. People here are discerning and know to take refuge in the three jewels. Is it important we expect and encourage wisdom in ourselves and our uniformed and priestly communities? I feel it is.

One of the qualities of spiritual wisdom is the capacity to know when to be ignorant. It takes insight and wisdom to for example provide unpopular requirements rather than dharma sound bytes or conventional responses.

Buddhism teaches that wisdom should be developed with compassion. At one extreme, you could be a good hearted fool and at the other extreme, you could attain knowledge without any emotion. Buddhism uses the middle path to develop both. The highest wisdom is seeing that in reality, all phenomena are incomplete, impermanent and do not constitute a fixed entity. True wisdom is not simply believing what we are told but instead experiencing and understanding truth and reality. Wisdom requires an open, objective, unbigoted mind. The Buddhist path requires courage, patience, flexibility and intelligence.
http://www.buddhanet.net/e-learning/5minbud.htm

What in you is wise?

mmosovaSarahT

Comments

  • howhow Veteran Veteran
    edited April 2015

    @Lobster

    What in you is wise?

    Is that not like asking "What in you is selflessness?"

    Today I think that wisdom
    is just compassion and love
    manifesting identities absence.

    ShockYourMoneyBuddhalobsterRodrigosova
  • DairyLamaDairyLama Veteran Veteran

    I am more aware of my ignorance. ;)

    lobsterstaceyKenneth
  • DavidDavid A human residing in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Ancestral territory of the Erie, Haudenosaunee, Huron-Wendat, Mississauga and Neutral First Nations Veteran
    "What in you is wise?"

    If I had a gun to my head I'd probably have to guess that it's the water.

    People are always telling me I'm a wise guy.
    silverKennethVastmind
  • staceystacey Explorer

    I read recently that Buddhism is an intellectually challenging religion that demands an extraordinarily high level of dedication and discipline among its members, and, of course, lots of time to devote to spiritual pursuits. Can wisdom be pursued or is it obtained organically and grown with care, patience, and practice?

    I'm more simple-minded and tend to believe wisdom is as wisdom does. Harder to follow than imagined.

  • staceystacey Explorer

    And, thanks for not posting a poll. <3

  • ElizEliz Arizona, USA Explorer

    @lobster said:
    What in you is wise?

    @lobster, I hope to be wise one day but I'm not there yet. :)

  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator

    “Wisdom is knowing I am nothing,
    Love is knowing I am everything,
    and between the two my life moves.”

    Nisargadatta Maharaj

    Am I wise?
    Wiser than I used to be.
    Am I as wise as I could be?
    You have to be kidding me....
    Will I become Wiser?
    Only a fool would consider that question...

    lobstermmoKennethanataman
  • karastikarasti Breathing Minnesota Moderator

    I tend to find that wisdom comes from a totally different place in me than intelligence. I can think through something and offer a reasonably intelligent thought on it (usually, lol) but the times when wisdom comes forth it's kind of like "I'm not sure where those words came from..." The necessary words are just there in the moment they are needed, whether for myself or someone else. It is not something I have to think too much on. Just something I've experienced.

    Wisdom can come from anywhere. My grandma is 89, and often she has great wisdom to offer. But not always. She still is stuck in habitual thought patterns and isn't terribly open-minded. But she still has wisdom to offer. Even my 6 year old son has wisdom to offer. Last night I had on Bruce Jenner's interview and my oldest (18) child and I were discussing it a bit. The youngest one came out of his room when the oldest was asking "well, is he gay or straight? I don't understand." And my 6 year old, who really while he hears the words probably doesn't quite grasp what they mean, said "people don't have to be just one thing or another thing. They can be a lot of in between things. People just are who they are." How does a 6 year old know that!? Wisdom comes from a place much deeper than simply our thinking minds.

    lobstermmoKenneth
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran

    Don't you think most people consider themselves wise?

    I don't hear many people walking around saying, "Gee, I'm foolish."

  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator
    edited April 2015

    You don't get to hear me all the time, while I'm "walking around", @vinlyn.
    Believe me when I tell you, I verbally consider myself foolish frequently, but Wise?
    It's the first time I've been asked, and it's the first time I've responded.

    As far as I'm concerned, my opinion is that, the moment one considers themselves Wise - they've shot themselves in the foot.

    lobsterBuddhadragon
  • bookwormbookworm U.S.A. Veteran

    I can't say that i'm wise for certain but I would say, having understanding that is independent of others makes one wise.

    lobster
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran

    Thanks guys.

    The dervish sometimes refer to themselves as idiots because their intense spirituality seems foolish to the ordinary Moslems.

    I find heartening the tendency to recognise ignorance and wisdom as something to look for in others.

    @how and @karasti have indicated a wisdom that is independent of person/identity/ego. I would suggest this sort of timeless and non aligned wisdom explains the common threads of compassion, kindness and other developed qualities attributed to the wise.

  • ShoshinShoshin No one in particular Nowhere Special Veteran

    "Are you Wise?"

    "Yes & No" "Yes" when ignorance is not playing tricks with the mind and "No" when it is....Happy to say the latter is gradually becoming obsolete :)

  • I think we all have moments of wisdom, as well as its opposite. We are an interplay of numerous energies, not static things with set characteristics. Isn't that what the teaching about non-self alludes to?

    That said, with practice we can encourage some energies more than others.
    Vastmind
  • I'd like to think I'm on the road, but it's way over the hill and maybe it always will be.

  • BuddhadragonBuddhadragon Ehipassiko & Carpe Diem Samsara Veteran
    What in me is wise?
    The part that shuts up and does more.
    lobsteranataman
  • who is the mind that practices the paramitas?

  • DairyLamaDairyLama Veteran Veteran

    @ourself said:> People are always telling me I'm a __wise guy__.

    Are you going to make us an offer we can't refuse? ;)

  • DavidDavid A human residing in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Ancestral territory of the Erie, Haudenosaunee, Huron-Wendat, Mississauga and Neutral First Nations Veteran
    No, I'm more apt to make you a sandwich you can't refuse.
    Vastmindlobster
  • DairyLamaDairyLama Veteran Veteran

    Phew, that's a relief, I though we were going to be sleeping with the fishes!

  • anatamananataman Who needs a title? Where am I? Veteran

    Wisdom...

    Such is the beauty and play of intellectual insight?

    Would you revere the only king if he stated he was enobled, when you knew that every all knew that he was not.

    Would you ask a fish to cook chips and then make a meal of himself, yet deride himself for not doing so...

    Such is this...

    Is this answer enough?

    ...\lol/...

    mmo
  • DavidDavid A human residing in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada. Ancestral territory of the Erie, Haudenosaunee, Huron-Wendat, Mississauga and Neutral First Nations Veteran
    @SpinyNorman;

    You call the good fellas wise guys over there? Over here, wise guys crack jokes, not knee caps.
  • ShoshinShoshin No one in particular Nowhere Special Veteran

    Are you Wise?

    "With age Buddhism comes wisdom, but sometimes age Buddhism comes alone."
    Oscar Wilde Shoshin

    Buddhadragon
  • FoibleFullFoibleFull Canada Veteran

    I know a little. What I do NOT know is much greater than what I do know.

    I have had teachers who are wise, and teachers who were not wise.
    The ones who were wise, both teachers and non-teachers, have opened my eyes to new ways of being and new ways of seeing.
    But I think I learn the MOST from teachers who were NOT wise ... I learn compassion and empathy and how to be non-judgemental. They show we where I am "stuck", and they challenge me, through who they are, to stretch my growth.
    I learn humility too ... I am not such a highly-accomplished Master that I require a Buddha or Arhat to instruct me. And whenever I start to grumble about the imperfections of a teacher, I remind myself that I do not require a Buddha to teach me. And those non-teachers, I remind myself that they ARE my teachers, especially when I trip on my own emotions.

    All we really need is someone a few steps further down the path than we are, to give us a hand up as we apply OUR efforts to attain.

    lobsterbookwormBuddhadragon
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran

    Thanks @FoibleFull I feel the fist quality of wisdom is recognition of our lack and that we can learn from bad and good teachers. Wisdom or discernment is indeed recognising that others may be ahead in qualities that are virtuous and helpful and we can learn from a variety of sources.

    Reminds me of the eight verses

    JeffreyZenshinBuddhadragon
  • ZenshinZenshin Veteran East Midlands UK Veteran

    Thanks for linking the eight verses @lobster. Very inspiring.

  • Will_BakerWill_Baker Vermont Veteran

    I am not wise but I have Buddha Wisdom; same for teachers but they are usually more adept at using theirs...

    lobster
  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran

    @Eliz said:
    I hope to be wise one day but I'm not there yet.

    B)

    The first step in wisdom is recognising its absence. An absence that is always present, especially in the wise.

    Being clever, smart or knowledgeable is not wisdom. Part of the compassion that @how mentions is in unfolding our limitations.

    It is why people never become wise by expounding their understanding in ways that remain unhearble, egoism, narcissism or innaproriate to the situation and circumstance.

    People recognise understanding because it resonates with their situation and experience.

    You and I can be confident that Buddhism and mystical/spiritual paths do produce wisdom. We can find it. We can share it. <3

    Eliz
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran

    Non-harming is wise. <3

  • I hope not, I'm rather enjoying searching for the wise me though.

  • ElizEliz Arizona, USA Explorer

    @lobster said:
    You and I can be confident that Buddhism and mystical/spiritual paths do produce
    wisdom. We can find it. We can share it. <3

    Thanks, @lobster. I agree with you completely. :)

  • thug4lyfethug4lyfe Explorer


    I confirm I was guy.

  • federicafederica Seeker of the clear blue sky... Its better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to speak out and remove all doubt Moderator

    Not as much as you think you were.... :tongue:

    ZenshinZenni
  • SarahTSarahT Time ... space ... joy South Coast, UK Veteran

    He that knew all that learning ever writ,
    Knew only this - that he knew nothing yet.

    ~ Aphra Behn, 1640-1689

    Read more at http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/quotes/a/aphrabehn169959.html#J1ilscWD2XlzxYzu.99

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