As @federica counts herself as a grammar maven, so I count myself as someone who would prefer to hear a NewBuddhist's honest opinion of any given topic. I don't require a lending-library litany of books the opinionizer may have read ... JUST SPIT IT OUT and stop worrying.
Stop saying "we" and say "I." Stop saying "you" and just say "I." Stop saying "they" and "one" and just give me your best take, deepest worry, most heart-felt laugh. Stop covering your ass and it will encourage me to stop covering mine. From where I sit, Buddhism is about getting UN-dressed ... unless money needs to be raised for bureaucratic purposes. Being "right" is not part of the equation. Applause is not the point. I love it when you tell me about your life, not your smarts.
Or anyway, I think so.
I now relinquish the soap box.