I'm Thankful For...
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Its Thanksgiving in the US, the day we celebrate eating too much food and football 😏. Part of that tradition in many families is taking turns before the meal to say what we're thankful for.
This year I'm thinking of my health and how grateful I am that at the age of 52 with a physically demanding job that my body and my health is still quite good. It allows me to continue to make a good enough living without stressing me out and I feel comfortable purchasing insurance with a high deductible. The recent budget standoff and government shutdown in the US was a fight over the insurance market place subsidies, I will be paying about 250% more next year, but it won't break the bank as a single person in good health and a 20 year old mortgage. But for a family or someone needing a more expensive plan it will make a negative impact.
So I'm thankful that my health continues to be good. I've also lost 10 pounds over the past few months, I think mostly through reducing sweeteners.
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It sounds like a good tradition, I will join in.
This year after losing my father and Aunt Elly, I’m grateful that my mother is still with us. I’m grateful that my mental health, despite a few stresses and groans, is still holding up. I’m grateful for beautiful green forests and the rains that feed them, for flowers and birds and bees…
I'm thankful for my family and home and glad to cook something special but not to big for 3 people: life partner, Mom, and myself. I'm using a jar of store made braising sauce to slow cook seasoned and browned chicken tenders and drumsticks. And cheese filled biscuits brushed with garlic butter. Chicken is in the slow cooker. Thankful for relative health though just diagnosed with diabetes even though I changed my diet drastically and lost 10 to 15 pounds.
I am grateful that you have opened this thread, @person. I used to have a heading for gratitude in my morning journal for years. I shall aim to make it so again - it primes the mind in good ways for the rest of the day.
I am grateful for this forum, our little online Sangha, all of you posting here rarely or often, to @Linc for keeping it operational, and to @federica for having moderated us. I often thought that I should open a "NB forum appreciation thread".
I am grateful for Buddhism. Among other things, it keeps me optimistic about the future, interested in life, and reminds me of the important things.
I am grateful for my Buddhist inspirations (teachers) but also non-Buddhist and non-spiritual ones. Their example shows a sense of possibility, their words light a little candle of the same quality in me, and their instructions are one of the greatest treasures in life for one who can actually implement them.
I am grateful for my parents, who are now aging (70 & 84). This year, both my Godfather's parents died, with whom I was very close. That made me realise that however irritating they are sometimes, this is it, they will die, so better make the most of our time together, and be as kind and helpful to them as I can.
I am grateful for my friends. They make life fun and keep loneliness at bay.
I am also grateful for my mental health holding up and actually improving both mid- and long-term, my decent physical health, my apartment, my hobbies, my efforts at good habits, even my new job that is a great opportunity both in terms of career and personal growth...
I am grateful to myself anytime I do a positive thing or, with frustration, whenever I don't do a negative thing.
I am grateful for my new bedside lamp. Y'all will laugh, but it is bringing me great comfort and joy, and is currently my favorite thing, maybe because I had crappy lighting in the bedroom in my previous apartment so I see it as a wonderful thing
Grateful to still be here after going thru esophageal cancer earlier this year. Other than swallowing difficulties due to scar tissue from all the radiation treatments I feel perfectly healthy again.
How was your Thanksgiving, American friends?
I am grateful for:
When I asked my young American friend how her Thanksgiving was, she told me she had a video chat with friends in the US, and the first thing they did was recite this prayer.
Haudenosaunee (Iroquois)) Prayer of Gratitude to the Natural World
The People
Today we have gathered and we see that the cycles of life continue. We have been given the duty to live in balance and harmony with each other and all living things. So now, we bring our minds together as one as we give greetings and thanks to each other as people. Now our minds are one.
The Earth Mother
We are all thankful to our Mother, the Earth, for she gives us all that we need for life. She supports our feet as we walk about upon her. It gives us joy that she continues to care for us as she has from the beginning of time. To our mother, we send greetings and thanks. Now our minds are one.
The Waters
We give thanks to all the waters of the world for quenching our thirst and providing us with strength. Water is life. We know its power in many forms- waterfalls and rain, mists and streams, rivers and oceans. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the spirit of Water. Now our minds are one.
The Fish
We turn our minds to the all the Fish life in the water. They were instructed to cleanse and purify the water. They also give themselves to us as food. We are grateful that we can still find pure water. So, we turn now to the Fish and send our greetings and thanks. Now our minds are one.
The Plants
Now we turn toward the vast fields of Plant life. As far as the eye can see, the Plants grow, working many wonders. They sustain many life forms. With our minds gathered together, we give thanks and look forward to seeing Plant life for many generations to come. Now our minds are one.
The Food Plants
With one mind, we turn to honor and thank all the Food Plants we harvest from the garden. Since the beginning of time, the grains, vegetables, beans and berries have helped the people survive. Many other living things draw strength from them too. We gather all the Plant Foods together as one and send them a greeting of thanks. Now our minds are one.
The Medicine Herbs
Now we turn to all the Medicine herbs of the world. From the beginning they were instructed to take away sickness. They are always waiting and ready to heal us. We are happy there are still among us those special few who remember how to use these plants for healing. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to the Medicines and to the keepers of the Medicines. Now our minds are one.
The Animals
We gather our minds together to send greetings and thanks to all the Animal life in the world. They have many things to teach us as people. We are honored by them when they give up their lives so we may use their bodies as food for our people. We see them near our homes and in the deep forests. We are glad they are still here and we hope that it will always be so. Now our minds are one
The Trees
We now turn our thoughts to the Trees. The Earth has many families of Trees who have their own instructions and uses. Some provide us with shelter and shade, others with fruit, beauty and other useful things. Many people of the world use a Tree as a symbol of peace and strength. With one mind, we greet and thank the Tree life. Now our minds are one.
The Birds
We put our minds together as one and thank all the Birds who move and fly about over our heads. The Creator gave them beautiful songs. Each day they remind us to enjoy and appreciate life. The Eagle was chosen to be their leader. To all the Birds-from the smallest to the largest-we send our joyful greetings and thanks. Now our minds are one.
The Four Winds
We are all thankful to the powers we know as the Four Winds. We hear their voices in the moving air as they refresh us and purify the air we breathe. They help us to bring the change of seasons. From the four directions they come, bringing us messages and giving us strength. With one mind, we send our greetings and thanks to the Four Winds. Now our minds are one.
The Thunderers
Now we turn to the west where our grandfathers, the Thunder Beings, live. With lightning and thundering voices, they bring with them the water that renews life. We are thankful that they keep those evil things made by Okwiseres underground. We bring our minds together as one to send greetings and thanks to our Grandfathers, the Thunderers. Now our minds are one.
The Sun
We now send greetings and thanks to our eldest Brother, the Sun. Each day without fail he travels the sky from east to west, bringing the light of a new day. He is the source of all the fires of life. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Brother, the Sun. Now our minds are one.
Grandmother Moon
We put our minds together to give thanks to our oldest Grandmother, the Moon, who lights the night-time sky. She is the leader of woman all over the world, and she governs the movement of the ocean tides. By her changing face we measure time, and it is the Moon who watches over the arrival of children here on Earth. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to our Grandmother, the Moon. Now our minds are one.
The Stars
We give thanks to the Stars who are spread across the sky like jewelry. We see them in the night, helping the Moon to light the darkness and bringing dew to the gardens and growing things. When we travel at night, they guide us home. With our minds gathered together as one, we send greetings and thanks to the Stars. Now our minds are one.
The Enlightened Teachers
We gather our minds to greet and thank the enlightened Teachers who have come to help throughout the ages. When we forget how to live in harmony, they remind us of the way we were instructed to live as people. With one mind, we send greetings and thanks to these caring teachers. Now our minds are one.
The Creator
Now we turn our thoughts to the Creator, or Great Spirit, and send greetings and thanks for all the gifts of Creation. Everything we need to live a good life is here on this Mother Earth. For all the love that is still around us, we gather our minds together as one and send our choicest words of greetings and thanks to the Creator. Now our minds are one.
We have now arrived at the place where we end our words.
Of all the things we have named, it was not our intention to leave anything out. If something was forgotten, we leave it to each individual to send such greetings and thanks in their own way. Now our minds are one.
Perhaps some food for thought for those descended from colonial settlers on Turtle Island.
There's a lot to be grateful for...each and everyday.
Thanks @Shoshin1
That level of gratitude is a blessing
I am thankful for:
While reading it this reminded me of my short meal prayer adapted from TNH, and had a little concern if there isn't a bit of cultural appropriation in reciting the above prayer.
But...
The airing of grievances is more of a Festivus tradition
Its good to have a holiday to remind us. Even though the origins of the US holiday go back to colonial times it didn't become a tradition until later and cemented as a national holiday until 1863 as a means of community building in the shadow of the US Civil War.
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