Anything that involves attachment in the form of "anxious attachment / avoidant attachment" / craving "/ view of "this is how it should be" usually ends up poorly.
Following precepts works best (and sticking to them!) in situations where you try to use logic to convince yourself how it is acceptable in that particular circumstance.
"Going forward in practice is a matter of everydayness." Dogen Zenji.
Kotishka
Dear Friends of Buddhism tomorrow, today and yesteryear,
1) Newbuddhist.com was impossible to visit by me due to emergency protection by @Linc to protect the site from AI generated swamping (I suspect)
2) Buddhism is an acquired template not a cure all
3) Do not mistake opinions or temporary for Buddhist 'Gospel'
4) Buddhism may be one of 'The Boys' (available as a TV series) that includes super heroic propaganda/hagiography
5) Don't drink the kool-aid or lose critical insight
6) Does it work for you? Then you are doing it right, for change
7) Good luck is possible. Work towards it...

What have you Learned recently?
lobster
I've lived in my house over 30 years, and it is full of stuff that I don't want or need. I'd really like to get rid of a lot of it, but most of it has no place to go but the local landfill, and those are already filling up way too fast with stuff people bought at some time and no longer want. I long ago changed my buying habits so that now part of the process is "how will I get rid of it when I don't want it anymore?" I don't buy much.
zorro
I think the solution is context.
The scientific method is very much about empiricism and third party verification on the physical level and in terms of things that can be tested through physical processes via physical instruments. Buddhism, on the other hand, is very much about empiricism and third party verification on the mental level and in terms of things that can be tested through mental processes via subjective experience.
The two can certain be compatible on many levels and agree, but there are also areas where they're delving into different fields of study and experience. And the Buddha presents his teachings as such—put them into practice and see what you observe and experience. Do you experience less suffering? Do you contribute les harm? If yes, then continue along the path. If no, then find one that does offer these results.
I'll say that from personal experience, Buddhism has greatly led me a place where I experience less suffering and contribute less harm to the world. And for that, I'm eternally gratful.
Jason
My father died exactly a year ago today. Last year around this time I had my first look at the contents of his apartment, which I found very confrontational because it was like he was still there, in the furniture he had chosen, his gadgets, his art. I had to wait several months for the legal issues to become clear. Then my mother and I had to inventory his apartment and find out what things were worth.
In the end it became clear to me that almost all the things in my father’s apartment would give more trouble to sell than the money I would get back for them. It was a good lesson in letting go. I kept a few things for sentimental reasons, but most of it went to charity shops, and to a clearance firm that I contracted.
In the course of a lifetime we gather many things, and then we need a home to store them in. But these things we cherish at the end of our lives have to be cleared up, often at a cost. Little that we leave behind still has value after we pass, and there is much to be said for living a life with minimal possessions, like our monk friends do.
Reflecting on things today…
Jeroen
@Linc said:
Spent some more time this afternoon diagnosing things and determined that the server simply needs more CPU power to be able to manage both the increased overhead of our defensive software (fail2ban) and still serve both sites at the normal speed. I've given it a small bump in power and things are much faster now.
I wish I could give you a small bump. I love you, @Linc.
Jason
Remarkably Bright Creatures is a drama narrated by an Octopus. I enjoyed
Jeffrey
For the most part, modern movies are regurgitated bullshit and AI slop and I don' enjoy them so much anymore. One surprising exception was Remarkable Bright Creatures, based upon the book of the same name. Besides that an Sinners, I think few modern movies have moved me. But I'm an old grump, so...
Jason
My dog is dying miserably of kidney failure, but he hasn't given up - managed to chase an intruder out of the house this morning - a cat that came in through an open door.
Fosdick