Recently I have been finding that discussions with old-timer sannyasins who still believe that Bhagwan was enlightened and could do no wrong take a turn towards “do you still use the name Bhagwan gave you” or “do you still feel gratitude towards Bhagwan”. To answer these questions honestly then creates a certain conflict in worldviews, but I think it’s fair to give an indication of where my truth lies. If on the other hand I am not asked, then I tend not to open this discussion.
It’s kind of a parallel to discussing Buddhism with people of other faiths. Any discussion of faith between friends tends to turn around tolerance and mutual respect, if you go down the route of trying to convince the other that your faith is better you may well end up with a serious disagreement. So how you approach this requires some sensitivity.
But it’s with people who you used to have much in common with that difficulties tend to surface the quickest, because you were once closely aligned. It reminds me of this joke by Emo Phillips…
Once I saw this guy on a bridge about to jump. I said, "Don't do it!" He said, "Nobody loves me." I said, "God loves you. Do you believe in God?"
He said, "Yes." I said, "Are you a Christian or a Jew?" He said, "A Christian." I said, "Me, too! Protestant or Catholic?" He said, "Protestant." I said, "Me, too! What franchise?" He said, "Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Baptist or Southern Baptist?" He said, "Northern Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist or Northern Liberal Baptist?"
He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist." I said, "Me, too! Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region, or Northern Conservative Baptist Eastern Region?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region." I said, "Me, too!"
”Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1879, or Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912?" He said, "Northern Conservative Baptist Great Lakes Region Council of 1912." I said, "Die, heretic!" And I pushed him over.
The thing is, with other followers of Osho you tend to have a lot in common — many shared experiences and a shared set of beliefs. But as a renegade you have said, certain things have caused you to break with that belief. That inevitably leads to a difficult discussion, do your listeners believe you were right, or do they believe you were wrong? It has a certain stake attached to it.
Jeroen
“Doubt is not a pleasant condition, but certainty is absurd.”
— Voltaire
person
The kind of thing I think or say, is if "I were king of the world, such and such". Meaning, yeah this is what I may think about something at the moment, but I'm just one person with a limited understanding and perspective. I'd never say what I think goes, I've simply been wrong or changed my mind enough times now to realize it makes no sense to have strong opinions.
But I suppose I do try to seek the truth, at least in terms of worldly information. Maybe the truth this quote is talking about is more of the spiritual realization sort. In that realm the idea of letting go to allow an underlying luminosity to come forth makes sense.
person
This could also be a generic quotes discussion thread, if you can still alter the topic title, @marcitko…
I think opinions that are lightly held, that you are ready to let go of when the need arises, are less harmful than those that you will passionately defend. But still, the personality is a patchwork of opinions, and it is ‘the coloured glass through which we perceive reality’.
Jeroen
Hello everyone,
Thought we might enjoy a thread for discussing the Buddhist quotes we post in the "Buddhist quotes" thread.
@Jeroen posted:
“Don't seek the truth. Just cease to cherish opinions.”
— Zen Proverb
I wonder if the "cherish" part is important? I ask this because it seems to me that even very advanced and/or realized practitioners/teachers still hold opinions, just maybe in a light and non-attached manner?
Anyway, just a thought to get us started.
“Every tree and every blade of grass will eventually become enlightened.”
— Buddhist saying
Jeroen
“If you cannot be at ease with yourself when you are alone, you will seek a relationship to cover up your unease. You can be sure that the unease will then reappear in some other form within the relationship, and you will probably hold your partner responsible for it.”
— Eckhart Tolle
Jeroen
“A victim identity is the belief that the past is more powerful than the present, which is the opposite of the truth. It is the belief that other people and what they did to you are responsible for who you are now, for your emotional pain or your inability to be your true self. The truth is that the only power there is, is contained within this moment: It is the power of your presence. Once you know that, you also realize that you are responsible for your inner space now -- nobody else is -- and that the past cannot prevail against the power of the Now.”
— Eckhart Tolle
Jeroen