“You don't have to wait for something “meaningful” to come into your life so that you can finally enjoy what you do. There is more meaning in joy than you will ever need. The “waiting to start living” syndrome is one of the most common delusions of the unconscious state.”
— Eckhart Tolle
Jeroen
What is your favourite part of Death?>
I'll let you know when I get there. Maybe it is like being born, or growing up, or getting old - a rebirth, a whole new set of reference points to navigate. Or maybe not. Perhaps the uncertainty is the best part.
Fosdick
“Stillness is the language that God speaks, and everything else is a bad translation.”
— Anonymous
Jeroen
@lobster said:
What is your favourite part of Death?
This is still theoretical for me in a lived sense, but my favourite part of death is that once we lose the fear of it, we lose all - at least chronic - fear. And can finally really live.
A quote comes to mind:
"A mystic is someone whom - quite fundamentally - you can't scare with death" (Allan Watts)
@lobster said:
Personally, I would go and volunteer in a hospice, if worried excessively about death
That seems another very good option. Becoming familiar with death up close and personal really helps with the fear of it. Death brings many beautiful as wel as sad moments.
Jeroen
@lobster said:
Do you mean in your view there are positive or even preferable things about the western mindset?
No I mean there is no vs if you have no set mind or mind set on views...
I suppose I could say and rather than vs. In my mind vs is just a term for comparison rather than competition. I take the yin/yang view of dichotomies, they oppose each other, they play off each other and contain the seeds of the other within them. I find it useful when discussing and thinking about things to juxtapose opposites, but that frame exists within the idea that there are no absolutes and its all a spectrum.
person
When one looks at the general positives and negatives of the East vs West, one finds that the opportunity to incorporate the best of both. Of course, this must be done with care. When successful, this blend creates a rich conglomeration grater, more wondrous than either separately.
The constant churning of cultures is necessary to prevent cultural stagnation and decline. The key is to not keep an open mind.
Peace to all
It seems to me that Buddhism does have some understanding of dysfunction in the mind…
It seems to agree with psychology and psychiatry that part of the spectrum of human experience is covered by insanity and dysfunction. This seems true on the scale of nations as well as individuals.
To me it feels like spirituality is in the first instance about uncovering what is sane in us, what is beneficial to our well-being. Only after we have done that can we talk about lofty goals like the Bodhisattva ideal.
Food for thought?
Jeroen