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Did Buddha Teach the Tantras and Tantric Sex? And What is this Teaching?
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Thao is right; bodhichitta, I was told, refers to the drop of semen, that first drop that's generated in the tantric rituals. At the moment the first drop appears, the initiate has to exercise restraint and prevent any semen from spilling. It's about prevention of ejaculation, and redirection of the semen upward, thereby engendering a bliss state. It's possible that bodhichitta refers to the semen in general. My university lessons were a long time ago, I only remember the professor discussing the significance of that first drop. Maybe you could find something about it on the internet.
In the symbolism of this tantric practice you imagine the semen to be bodhicitta. But its just a representation in order to utilize actual bodhicitta even if its actual semen thats used. You could have a spiritual practice where you vizualize bodhicitta as chicken feathers, that doesn't make bodhicitta actually chicken feathers. So bodhicitta has a specific translation and meaning but you can use any item as a representation of it, real or imagined.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Om_mani_padme_hum
My lama says the material in wikipedia was probably arrived at from an insight at a retreat. Such insights are not reality itself because reality has no characteristics it is only apparent.
The genitalia is a symbol of something else. Both the something else and the genitalia are empty. Spacious. Not pure or impure. Not as they appear and not otherwise.
"It is very good to recite the mantra Om mani padme hum, but while you are doing it, you should be thinking on its meaning, for the meaning of the six syllables is great and vast... The first, Om [...] symbolizes the practitioner's impure body, speech, and mind; it also symbolizes the pure exalted body, speech, and mind of a Buddha[...]"
"The path is indicated by the next four syllables. Mani, meaning jewel, symbolizes the factors of method: (the) altruistic intention to become enlightened, compassion, and love.[...]"
"The two syllables, padme, meaning lotus, symbolize wisdom[...]"
"Purity must be achieved by an indivisible unity of method and wisdom, symbolized by the final syllable hum, which indicates indivisibility[...]"
"Thus the six syllables, om mani padme hum, mean that in dependence on the practice of a path which is an indivisible union of method and wisdom, you can transform your impure body, speech, and mind into the pure exalted body, speech, and mind of a Buddha[...]"
maleness and femaleness are not self existent. So the method is LIKE male and the wisdom is LIKE female. But not IS.
Is it true that females are always wise hahahhaahahahahah?
When everything is dull and grey and lifeless in our heart. That is frozen bodhicitta. Some people drive across frozen ice to go from their home on an island to get to their work. What do you think about that compassionate warrior?
I was just trying to be helpful, but my info seems to be being taken as criticism of the tradition. ...??
Thao: traditionally the lama taught tantra to monks, not to women he likes. Though it's true that in the old days, some lamas did take consorts, I think in many cases it's not tantric sex that happened. Anyway, from what I understand, the monks or lay initiates were supposed find and provide the consorts. Low-caste women were recommended in the case of monks, immediate relatives in the case of lay initiates.
So sad that there's such a disregard for ethics on the guru scene. I'm sorry for your disillusioning experiences, Thao.
Let me quote from the book Commentary on the Kalachakra Tantra:
"The white bodhicitta refers to the semen in the Kalachakra practice, the emission of semen or the white bodhcitta is the root downfall." This is where the male disciple has to retain his semen, and if he can't, it is a root downfall.
I did not write this book. I agree with you that there is no canal, but hey, that is tantra for you. Have you ever saw the canal that they are talking about? The one that awakens kundalini? No. You won't see this one either, and maybe it is going through those canals.
I think the body is much more complex than Western science is aware. I don't think we should dismiss the idea of canals and meridians just because they don''t exist on the physical plane. Can you see electricity? Most of the time, not. Yet you don't doubt it exists. Back when electricity was "discovered" and harnessed for everyday use, people regarded it in mystical terms. Now we know it's just electricity, not a big deal. We may find out the same someday regarding the Kundalini canals and acupuncture meridians, and possibly a lot more.
ust as long as no-one confuses the three meetings mentioned in your post above with The Three Councils of early Buddhism, beginning just after the Parinibbana of the Buddha:
''The history of Theravada as a school of Buddhism should begin with a quick survey of the life of Gotama Buddha himself. He was born as a Sakyan prince at a place near the Himalayas about six hundred years BC. Grieved at the ills of life such as old age, sickness and death, he renounced the world at the age of 29 and started seeking the way to Nibbana, "Extinction" of all forms of suffering. At 35 he achieved his goal and became Buddha. He then carried out his teaching mission for 45 years. At 80 he attained Parinibbana, "Total Extinction" (which is the Buddhist way of expressing his demise). Just before that event he left a message to his cousin and attendant monk, Ananda, part of which being:
When I am gone, the Dhamma (Doctrine) and Vinaya (Discipline) that I have taught and laid down shall be your Teacher!
This implies that the Buddha did not want to appoint any person to succeed him on his demise. The two Great Disciples Sariputta and Moggallana had already passed away; but Maha Kassapa who enjoyed the good reputation of being the Third Disciple was alive. But even a man of his stature would not become the Buddha"s successor. By this injunction the Buddha made it clear that only his Dhamma and Vinaya would adequately and effectively serve as the sole guide to his followers. Dhamma-Vinaya therefore was the designation given by the Master himself to his twofold teaching (pavacana) about the time of his Parinibbana. There was no reason whatever to dub it Theravada.
When the First Council was held at Rajagaha three months after the Buddha"s demise with the noble aim of consolidation the Dhamma-Vinaya "before righteousness fades away and before unrighteousness shines forth". The Council was presided over by Maha Kassapa whose questions on the Vinaya and the Dhamma were answered by Upali and Ananda respectively. The answers were confirmed by 500 monks who recited both in unison and passed on from teacher to pupil orally. The name Theravada remained unheard of, at least publicly. It that Buddhism as one whole body with its original designation of Dhamma Vinaya stood in full bloom all over India.
A century later the Second Council was held at Vesali under the collective leadership of Yasa, Revata and Sabbakami to discuss the "ten points" which in fact were the Buddha's certain disciplinary ruler relaxed and practised by imprudent Vajjian monks. The Council composed of 700 members decided the points unlawful and condemned the Vajjians who seceded from that Council to convene their own known as Maha sangha or Mahasangiti, the Great Council, since their number 10,000 far exceeded that of the former. It was the open and serious schism that took place in the Sangha, the Buddhist Order, for the first time. And with the schism emerged two factions of Theravadins, followers of Theravada, and Mahasanghikas or Mahasangitikas, those of the secession.
The Third Council in the tradition of Theravada was held in the 3rd century, according to the Chronicles and Commentaries, with Moggaliputta Tissa as its president and Asoka to the Moriyan Dynasty as its supporter. The venue of the Council was the imperial city Pataliputta. The purpose was to purify the religion and to restore peace to the Order, for many heretics who had joined the Sangha for convenient livelihood caused confusion and unfortunate incidents in the Sangha.''
http://www.budsas.org/ebud/ebdha136.htm
The only studies i know that have been done were done by Dr. Andrew Newberg, which you may know about, but it only shows the brain on meditation. I loved his books.
I disagree with someone who felt those councils really had no power or influence. That's what some said about what was going on in the Catholic Church...that priests shouldn't be expected to report improper goings on. That's called a coverup. Today's Buddhist groups should speak out against wrong doing. Period. No excuses.
The Dalai Lama encourages students to speak out and go to the press, and even initiate lawsuits, if necessary. But I don't think that's enough. Why should the burden be entirely on the students? Some dharma centers have enacted strict codes of conduct. That's helpful. What more can be done? Are you suggesting that there be a global Buddhist watchdog entity with its own tribunal to impose order? I wonder how practical a suggestion that is, and I also wonder how well it would work and whether it would cause sectarian strife? Would we be able to trust the appointees to it, if a lineage has a history of corruption? Would it be made up of lay practitioners as well as (ostensibly) respected sectarian leaders? I'm all for practical suggestions to address what seems to have been a pretty chaotic situation in the past. But I don't know where to start. By "today's Buddhist groups", who do you mean? The councils you mention? I think that if we're to take this matter seriously, there are hard questions that need to be examined and answered.
A watchdog entity. Well, let's put it this way. There is an international Mormon entity that sets the standards for Mormonism. Same for the Methodist Church. Same for the Catholic Church. Etc. And, each of those organizations "defrocks" ministers/priests that don't follow church standards. Why would it be any more impossible for Buddhist organizations? And to some extent, there is. In Thailand there is the Thai Supreme Sangha...and they do control Thai Buddhism to a degree. And, in fact, in Thailand, the government also controls Buddhism to an extent.
How well do all these things work? Well, as with any organization, we know that the effectiveness of such efforts varies. But with no such organization...anything goes...and that doesn't seem very reasoned.
Yes, I'm aware that monks do get defrocked in Thailand, the system seems to work there. Tibetan monks rarely, if ever, get defrocked in spite of routine misconduct. If there's corruption at the top, there's not going to be enforcement in the lower ranks (not to mention the upper ranks). I have the same impression of some Zen monks and teachers.
Buddha did not say you could not have two teachers. He just said the dhamma could be your teacher. Thich Nhat Hanh has an interesting commentary on the diamond sutra. In the diamond buddha I am not sure if he says what Thich does but he does this: a rose is not a rose. that is how it is a rose. The rose isn't an object which we understand as complete entity. A rose is all of the connections in the universe which we are sensitive to. A dynamic energy. When you grasp you suffer.
When you go with the flow and experience the energy of an empty rose everything takes care of itself due to the clarity openness and sensitivity of your mind. The mind is stained by kleshas but it also has a 'knowing' nature. If it did not we would have no basis to take refuge.
Thich Nhat Hanh points out: the dharma is not the dharma. that is how it is the dharma. So you include all teachings which are love and wisdom. christian teachings are the dharma.
the dharma is not an airtight theory buddha laid down. if you do not have a sensitive mind and a sense of lightness and responsiveness then you end up grasping the dharma by the wrong end.
If they are not secret then why are people saying that they are?
I bow at the feet of my teacher Marpa.
And sing this song in response to you.
Listen, pay heed to what I say,
forget your critique for a while.
The best seeing is the way of "nonseeing" --
the radiance of the mind itself.
The best prize is what cannot be looked for --
the priceless treasure of the mind itself.
The most nourishing food is "noneating" --
the transcendent food of samadhi.
The most thirst-quenching drink is "nondrinking" --
the nectar of heartfelt compassion.
Oh, this self-realizing awareness
is beyond words and description!
The mind is not the world of children,
nor is it that of logicians.
Attaining the truth of "nonattainment,"
you receive the highest initiation.
Perceiving the void of high and low,
you reach the sublime stage.
Approaching the truth of "nonmovement,"
you follow the supreme path.
Knowing the end of birth and death,
the ultimate purpose is fulfilled.
Seeing the emptiness of reason,
supreme logic is perfected.
When you know that great and small are groundless,
you have entered the highest gateway.
Comprehending beyond good and evil
opens the way to perfect skill.
Experiencing the dissolution of duality,
you embrace the highest view.
Observing the truth of "nonobservation"
opens the way to meditating.
Comprehending beyond "ought" and "oughtn't"
opens the way to perfect action.
When you realize the truth of "noneffort,"
you are approaching the highest fruition.
Ignorant are those who lack this truth:
arrogant teachers inflated by learning,
scholars bewitched by mere words,
and yogis seduced by prejudice.
For though they yearn for freedom,
they find only enslavement.
Buddhism has a meaning in the context of turning towards truth. To see clearly and by your clear view the false clinging disappears. Suffering is the issue.
If you have an idea that something is or isn't buddhas teaching and you are clinging then it really doesn't matter what you think. What matters is that you are clinging. It is very kind to try to show somebody buddhas teaching out of compassion for their welfare. It shows a lack of respect to belittle the way that they practice. I understand that it comes from fear and lack of comfort in ones own skin (or the world) perhaps? Yet I appreciate the question of what is and what isn't buddhas teaching... thats an interesting point. Is it buddhas teaching because it brings liberation or because its in X canon?
Maybe your professor in this analogy is more like NPR
Thao; about abused women not being able to speak up for themselves, or being terrified (threatened) into silence, and so forth--it's time to empower women to speak up! Time to form support networks, put up websites, blogs, whatever, so that those poor women don't have to suffer in silence, not to mention deal with psychological trauma in silence, which can be debilitating. Women don't realize that they actually have all the power--they know the secrets, so they can not only tarnish a false or unethical guru's reputation, they can blow the lid off the secrecy. (This of course goes for men, too, who suffer abuse from female teachers/gurus.) HHDL said to go public, get it into the media. Back in May there was a documentary braodcast in Canada on Sogyal's decades of chronic abuse of women, and on the whole problem of abuse in TB. This appears to be the only way to clean up the act, it doesn't look like reforms, or accountability or ethical standards are going to be imposed from within.
I'd like to be part of a tradition I can respect. I've lost respect for TB, and it's a little upsetting, disconcerting. Can we hope to restore respect to the tradition?
But I am a little confused. Is Tibetan Buddhism one branch within Mahayana Buddhism?
Hina means little and maha means vast. It is not originally meant to mean better and worse. Mahayanists practice for the enlightenment of all beings. Hinayanists practice for the enlightenment of themselves in this life or in future lives. Hinayana is not synonym to Theravada. After all it is a Tibetan buddhist concept. A buddhist in a Tibetan sangha can be practicing hinayana mainly. I knew a guy who said in all schools of buddhism he can see limited amounts of all 3 turnings in every buddhist religion, but it is not meant to be literal it is more... probably a loose association he could have said he saw all three turnings in islam probably.
It is referred to as great and small because one person is less vast than all people. It is believed that the bodhicitta for the mahayana is more powerful due to power to release from ego and overcome kleshas which makes you more available for others because your not drowning in your own stuff.
Vajrayana is the diamond vehicle. I don't study the vajrayana but it is basicly the idea that although we stop grasping we manifest something as buddhas. That is to say one has not actually attained the other two yanas if they are not manifesting love and wisdom.
Therefore Tibetan buddhism 'could' be classified as mahayana. Remember all classifications are artificial in some way, well maybe outside of Aristotles view. Except for definitive ones such as rye bread is made from rye. But it is more vague what pizza is.
A woman doesn't really blow the lid off anything when a guru comes on to them. Why? In Hinduism, in every group I knew, the disciples would say of such a woman, She wants fame, she is lying, she has emotional problems, so don't believe her, and most don't believe her because they admire the guru and would never believe otherwise, and if it so happens that they do believe otherwise, they say that she came on to him first, and came on to him and came on to him, and it is all her fault.
I screamed just verbal abuse with a swami in Vedanta. He in turn shunned me. One women said, "He was trying to help you. If Swami Vivekananda had quit when he was shunned by his guru, where would we be, we would have have his writings." I watched other women leave, and i heard the same things, she was too emotionally unstable. When you hear these things you lose power to stand up for yourself, especially if the gurus and the students mean a lot to you. And if you have been told to keep quiet.
No one is immune to these things, no one is immune to brainwashing. I remember reading Dr. Margaret Singer, PhD, who helped ex cult members and people who had breakdowns due to meditation, say, "All they have to do is get their foot in the door." She said it didn't matter how intelligent a person is; if he listens to them he will become a believer. I remember a study in Psychology Today back in the 70s I believe, where these psychologist, psychiatrists, or psychology students listened to the fundamentalist Christians on a daily basis, and when they got alone, they had a hard time getting rid of the views that were being pounded into them.
So yes, apparently this includes sex, and when they say to "use everything", well, they do, they USE women and men for sex.
I don't have any respect for gurus of either Hinduism or Tibetan Buddhism, and when I am in a position where I feel I should show respect, it is faked.
Here's a nice description of how to practice with anger:
http://www.shambhala.org/teachers/vctr/lionsroar.html
Adapted from the seminar Buddhadharma Without Credentials, held at the New York Dharmadhatu in March, 1973. ©1997 Diana J. Mukpo
"The lion's roar, according to Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche, is the fearless proclamation that whatever comes up in our state of mind, including powerful emotions, is workable. (F Lion's Roar * 12/12)"
"In the third turning of the wheel of dharma, the Buddha speaks of the lion's roar. The lion's roar is the fearless proclamation that anything that happens in our state of mind, including emotions, is manure. Whatever comes up is a workable situation; it is a reminder of practice, and it acts as a speedometer. It is a way to proceed further into the practice of meditation."
"So that is what is called the lion's roar: whatever occurs in the realm of samsaric mind is regarded as the path, and everything is workable. It is a fearless proclamation-lion's roar."
"But as long as we patch over what we feel are unworkable situations, as long as we try to put the patchwork of metaphysical, philosophical or neat religious ideas over the holes, then it ceases to be a lion's roar. It turns instead into a coward's scream-which is very pathetic."
"So unless we are completely mummified, which is death, being a corpse, there's no way to have perfect patchwork. For a living human being, patchwork is an absolutely impractical idea. From this point of view, buddhadharma without credentials is equal to the lion's roar."
"The lion's roar is analogous to space: space is constantly self-existing center as well as fringe. Wherever there's space, there's center as well as fringe. So space is all pervading and self-contained. Similarly, the idea of lion's roar is fearlessness in the sense that every situation that comes up in our life is workable. Nothing is rejected as a bad influence or grasped as a good influence. Everything that goes on in our life situation, all the types of emotion, is workable. The inherent essence of situations is workable, and the apparent qualities of situations are workable as well."
"Questions and answers:
[Jeffrey: I marked with five stars ones that I thought would be of interest to you, Thao. ]
Question: Is this true of any emotion, that you just deal with it by getting directly into it?
*****Trungpa Rinpoche: If you really get into it, which doesn't mean to say that you have to kill somebody or suppress it, but just get the texture of its own nature, yes.
Q: That sounds too simple.
*****TR: It is simple, that's why it's workable. This doesn't need special training, just use basic instinct.
Q: It seems that in certain emotional states, part of the state itself is a kind of paralysis; you are unable to respond, you're actually stuck in that place. Do you mean that at that point there must be an extra effort of conscious attention to that?
TR: Well, when you get stuck, it is a beautiful situation. You have more chance to relate with the textures. Let it be that way, rather than trying to get unstuck.
Q: What about depression? All the things you are talking about seem to be energies, emotions of energies, but a state of depression seems to be a negative energy, or absence of energy.
TR: Depression is one of the very powerful energies, one of the most common energies that we have. It is energy. Depression is like an oxygen tank which wants to burst, but is still bottled. It is a fantastic bank of energies, much more so than aggression and passion which are kind of developed and then let out. They are in some sense frivolous, whereas depression is the most dignified energy of all.
Q: I'm not quite satisfied. You say it's a bank of energy. How do you take the money out of the bank or does it just stay in the vault?
Well, try to relate to the texture of the energy in the depression situation. Depression is not just a blank, it has all kinds of intelligent things happening within it. I mean, basically depression is extraordinarily interesting and a highly intelligent state of being. That is why you are depressed. Depression is an unsatisfied state of mind in which you feel that you have no outlet. So work with the dissatisfaction of that depression. Whatever is in it is extraordinarily powerful. It has all kinds of answers in it, but the answers are hidden. So, in fact I think depression is one of the most powerful of all energies. It is extraordinarily awake energy, although you might feel sleepy.
Q: Is that because it wipes everything away? Could it be a kind of emptiness, a sort of doorway to meditation. I mean, in that kind of depression there is the feeling that nothlng is happening at all.
TR: Well, that's it. That's quite a profound thing. It has its own textures. Let's say that you feel extraordinarily depressed, and there is no point in doing anything. You seem to be doing the same thing all over again. You give up the whole thing but you can't. And on the whole, you are extremely depressed and trying to do something is repetitious. And trying not to do something is also irritating. Why should you do something? The whole thing is absolutely meaningless. You feel extremely down. Trying to get into the things that used to inspire you makes more depression, because you used to get off on them and you can't anymore. That's very depressing and everything is really ordinary, extremely ordinary and really real, and you don't really want to do anything with it. It's an extraordinarily heavy weight pushing down. You begin to experience that your ceilings are much heavier than they used to be, and the floor becomes much heavier than it used to be. There is a whole wall made out of lead, compressing you all over the place; there is no outlet at all. Even the air you breathe is metallic, or lead, or very thick. There is no freshness at all. Everything that depression brings is really, really real and very heavy. And you can't really get out of it because the idea of getting out of it itself brings further depression, so you are constantly bottled and pushed in that situation and you would like to just purely sit around.
Well, if the whole thing gets worse, then just trying to step out, which seems to be the only answer, is a suicidal approach. Things get very heavy and very slow. Meeting inspiring friends, who used to be inspiring friends, becomes depressing. When you try to put on a record of the music that used to inspire you, it also brings depression. Still nothing ever moves. The whole thing is black, absolute black.
But, at the same time, you are experiencing tremendous texture, the texture of how the stagnation of samsara works, which is fantastic. You feel the texture of something. That entertainment didn't work. This entertainment didn't work. Referring back to the past didn't work; projecting into the future didn't work. Everything is made out of texture, so you could experience depression in a very intelligent way. You could relate with it completely, fully. And once you begin to relate with it as texture of some kind, as a real and solid situation which contains tremendous texture, tremendous smell, then depression becomes a beautiful walkway. We can't discuss it really. We have to actually get into heavy depression and then feel about that.
Unite with the depression.
Yeah, you become the depression.
Q: What about extreme physical panic or discomfort, the nausea, the headache, thinking you're going to pass right out, and sometimes the sweat, the cold sweat, the shortness of breath where you can't catch your breath.
TR: It seems to be psychosomatic. According to the Buddhist way of viewing physical health, any sickness that comes up is a hundred per cent, if not two hundred, psychosomatic. Always.
Q: So you just keep going back to that point?
TR: Yeah, back to mind, back to the heart. There is a Zen writing called "Trust in the Heart." You should read that.
Q: So what you're saying is that everything that I experience and everything that I think as "I-experience" is really buddhamind, experiencing itself?
TR: Yeah, without fear. That's the lion's roar. That is lion's roar.
Q: When you are doing sitting meditation, do you bring the emotions that arise in everyday life to your sitting, or is it simply enough to go back to your breath?
*****TR: Well, as far as the sitting practice is concerned, emotions are thinking, pure thinking. In our everyday life situations, emotions are a challenge, possibilities of path.
Q: So it would seem that the only time an emotion could harm you is if you try to repress it, if you try to push it back.
TR: As well as if you try to analyze it fully, or act it out in a frivolous way.
Q: What do you mean by frivolous?
TR: Well, go out and kill somebody. You know that.
Q: It seems like emotions take on a quality of coming towards you, so you have to figure them out, analyze them.
*****TR: I don't see problems with that. It's a question of whenever there is doubt, you find out the root of the doubt, and find out where the doubt came from, not particularly in order to solve the problem as such, but just to relate with the face value of things happening on the spot. That's what is called, in Buddhist terms, scientific mind. It is experiencing, analyzing on the spot without value judgment. So from that you begin to learn with tremendous directness, the simple facts of the matter, and you go on from that. You don't have to be goal oriented particularly. And scientific mind is not particularly goal oriented. True scientists are unconcerned with the goal. They are fascinated by finding out the facts of the matter.
Q: I don't quite know what you mean by experiencing emotions in meditation as thoughts. A powerful physical sensation might go along with an emotion. I don't know what you mean by experiencing it as a thought.
TR: An emotion is also a thought. You're enraged with anger, as if you are almost going to levitate on your meditation cushion. And it's still your thought, so you say "a thought," "thought;" you say "thinking," "thinking," "thinking."
Q: Are you saying that there is actually no feeling without thinking?
*****TR: Well, you see the thing is, the fifth skandha of consciousness, of thinking, plays the leading part, the introductory one. This goes back to the
the conceptual, the feeling and everything. So the fifth skandha plays an important part, always. The fifth skandha is always the leading point.
Q: I know the point is not to get rid of your depression or anger, but do they wear out, like distractions?
TR: No promise, my dear. Wait and see. Have more patience.
I don't believe the mahayana uses the pali canon. There are parallel sutras in their own canon's as far as I understand.
Thats not what happens in my sangha. I would say there is a disconnect between what I have seen over five years and what you are claiming without any personal experience. I agree that in cases where there is abuse they are ashaming their tradition. But sexuality or 'teacher' (guru means teacher....like in zen there is a 'master') is not inherently shameful.
Your argumentation is confusing Thao. On one hand you are saying that there is corruption and abuse. On the other hand you are saying that anger and sexuality cannot be used for buddhist practice. I agree there should not be abuse. If there is than it should be exposed and corrected. For my own benefit too. I don't want to be ashamed of what people are doing in my tradition.
According to the basic text of my tradition:
[text describes the five families of buddha: incorrigable, solitary, hearer, indeterminate, mahayana]
V. Mahayana family. What kind of family is the Mahayana? The summary:
Classification, definition, synonyms,
Reason it is superior to other families,
Causal characteristics, and marks--
These six comprise the Mahayana family
........
F. Marks. The marks of this family are the signs which indicate the bodhisattva family. The Ten Noble Bhumis Sutra says:
The family of wise bodhisattvas
Can be recognized by its signs
Just as fire is known by smoke
And water is known by water birds.
In that case, what kinds of marks are their? Their bodies and speech are naturally gentle without dependence on remedy. Their minds are less deceitful, and have loving kindness and clarity towards sentient beings. Thus, the Ten Noble Bhumis Sutra says:
No harshness or arrogance,
Avoiding deceit and cunning,
Having a clear loving attitude toward all sentient beings
That is a bodhisattva
In other words, in whatever preparatory actions a bodhisattva undertakes, he always cultivates compassion for all sentient beings, has great inclination towards the mahayana teachings, has no hesitation to endure hardship, and perfectly performs the root of virtue of the perfections. Thus the Ornament of the Mahayana Sutra says:
Developing compassion at the preparation stage,
Devoted interest, patience,
Perfectly performing virtues--
These are the signs of the Mahayana family.
.....................
Here is a link to information about the Chinese canon http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinese_Buddhist_canon
The Tibetan Buddhist canon is called the Kangyur.
"The Kangyur is divided into sections on Vinaya, Perfection of Wisdom Sutras, Avatamsaka, Ratnakuta and other sutras (75% Mahayana, 25% Nikaya / Agama or Hinayana), and tantras."
I don't think the Buddha taught a sexual path.There are no "supramundane" teachings about transforming sex into Enlightenment. The only explanation I've read of how he taught that is that he manifested as Abidharma (if I have that correct) at the same time as he was preaching abstinence to monks. So he was in two forms at the same time, teaching opposite things to 2 different groups of people. That sounds like mythology to me. And I'm sure he didn't teach about having sex with 10-year olds.
But you know what, Jeffrey? If this tradition is helping you, then go for it. You know what works for you. And I've seen you write elsewhere that you're not interested in the tantric sex practices, you're studying the many other teachings. And those teachings are very rich and sophisticated, I've seen some writings by some of the lamas. Very impressive. But I don't think it's fair to people who have suffered from misconduct, for practitioners to deny that their suffering happened. I don't know how students of this tradition would reconcile these unpleasant realities with their practice, but I guess that's up to them. It's really caused me to call everything into question, I can tell you that. So we each have to deal with it in our own way.