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Do the precepts matter at all?

Shalom,

After going through the threads on porn, prostitution, sex trade, gun control, etc., I am beginning to wonder whether there is any right or wrong - or whether 'right' is determined by various factors like the stage of social evolution, relativity, an individual's position in life, and so on. In short, is it even worth following the right, the precepts laid down by the Buddha? Are we simply becoming more and more legalistic on this account?

Not saying we should go around and commit evil. But if liberation is all that matters, can't we just be decent human beings in this life and not obsess too much over right and wrong? For instance, I may feel that being a drug dealer is wrong but if my alternative is poverty/disease, then the fear of this alternative may force me to choose 'wrong.' But this doesn't make me a bad person, just a desperate person or a coward.

So my point is, there is no need to see everything in terms of right/wrong - in fact, most of the 'wrongs' we do are the result of circumstances, our own lack of strength (rather than an active intention to commit evil).
CinorjerEvenThirdlobsterPrincelyNiesje

Comments

  • ^ Very interesting post, @betaboy. Definitely something to think about...
  • Buddha sets the guidelines.
    You decide, act and face the consequences of your actions.

    cvaluevinlynriverflowNiesje
  • I prefer to take advice and guidelines if they resonate with me and I know and feel it is the right thing to do. Not simply because "Buddha" or any other being has decided what was right and wrong.
    MaryAnneNiesje
  • How do you know something is right?

    From the moment you were born, you were conditioned by your environment.

    For eg. Is polygamy wrong?
    Woah93 said:

    I prefer to take advice and guidelines if they resonate with me and I know and feel it is the right thing to do. Not simply because "Buddha" or any other being has decided what was right and wrong.

    cvalueShak
  • And my favorite is why is eating chicken ok but not dogs?
    cvalue
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    The key point I will make in responding is your phrase that, "...if liberation is all that matters...". I reject that concept. And, after reading many of your posts in many different threads, I know you don't believe that. And to be honest, anyone who does believe that...well, I don't want to know them or associate with them, because inherent in that belief is a totally self-centered and selfish world-view.

    Buddhism is seen as one of the world's great religions. But take away Buddhism's moral code, and there is nothing left in Buddhism for the world to respect. In fact, think about some non-Buddhist saying, "Buddhism has no morality."

    Of course, if you want to take away the 5 Precepts, the vegetarian-thumpers would leave the rest of us alone. :D Every cloud has a silver lining.
    MaryAnneriverflow
  • @hermitwin said: How do you know something is right? From the moment you were born, you were conditioned by your environment.
    @hermitwin, you are impressive! Hats off to you.
  • This is my favorite quote:
    Buddha sets the guidelines. You decide, act and face the consequences of your actions - by @hermitwin
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    poptart said:

    Buddhism is not simply following a list of dos and don'ts. It's about opening up and developing the clarity and sensitivity to make these decisions for yourself. The precepts were not given by Buddha so that his followers could divide the world up into good/bad and sit in judgement on others. There is already enough bigotry and self-righteousness in the world.

    I don't think anyone here is suggesting anything different than you are saying.

  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Great post, Sabre!
    Sabrecvalueriverflow
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Great post, Cinorjer!
    cvalueSabre
  • Wow! Double awesome! Great post! @Sabre. I understand but I can't express myself as good as you guys. Thanks.

    @Sabre said: It's a famous order in the Buddha's teachings: virtue leads to meditation, which leads to wisdom and ultimately liberation. People may want to start with wisdom/liberation and in fact many seem to try to, but it won't work. We have to start at the start and that's why the precepts matter so much. They are an absolute cornerstone to the Buddha's teachings - if not the total foundation.
    Sabre
  • The Five precepts are called training precepts. Not exactly rules. More like helpful guides. For me they are important. I am told by a friend in the construction trade that a well built house requires a stable foundation.
  • BunksBunks Australia Veteran
    I think the precepts can be helpful for people with self esteem issues too.

    Knowing you are following a set of "rules" that are a benefit to all beings should make people feel better about themselves.
    riverflow
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    Yes, I think they are training rules -- training you not to murder, not to steal, not to lie, etc.
    BunksSabreCinorjer
  • Bad actions make the mind polluted with negativity. The precepts allow us to have ahimsa (non-harming) where we don't have anything negative on our conscience. So then we can meditate and have a clarity of head in daily life ie not poisoned and drowning in suffering. In our clear blameless meditation we can realize wisdom.
    SabreBunkscvalue
  • howhow Veteran Veteran
    Right and wrong are the words we use to determine what tribe we belong to.
    The precepts are just a path towards the transcendence of all tribes.
    ChazriverflowEvenThirdlobster
  • It's possible to have a realization that is totally beyond the mundane and not wrapped up in karma. But if someone in their realization of emptiness does not respect karma or actually meditate then Trungpa called that shunyata poison - or emptiness poison.

    The person beyond karma can eat feces and it's the same thing as a fine meal. But I want to see the teachers above karma actually eat feces and urine before I declare their actions above mundane standards.
    cvalue
  • genkakugenkaku Northampton, Mass. U.S.A. Veteran
    The Eightfold Path points out a number of "right" activities. But the word "right" is sometimes translated as meaning "complete," "wholehearted" or something similar. There is a difference between a "right" that brings with it a mirror image of "wrong" and a "right" that is complete or thorough-going.

    Right and wrong are where any sensible person begins. Socially speaking, ethics are important. Actions have consequences. If you doubt this, try robbing a bank or gob-smacking a cop. In general, it's a good idea to think through the consequences of actions -- both for ourselves and others. Spiritual persuasions are sometimes known for joining the fray -- heaven for good little boys and girls and hell for the rest. This is the world of right and wrong.

    But rewards and punishments only reach so far. They may be good training and good manners, but are they really "complete?" A complete action has no edges. There is no "before" and no "after." There is nothing else. For example, try "being a Buddhist" in the midst of a sneeze. A sneeze is invariably complete and my view is that The Eightfold Path points to a life that is complete in each moment ... not because you'll get thrown in the slammer or ascend to some golden throne, but rather because each moment is already complete and you might as well get with life's program.

    Just because each moment is already complete does not mean that right and wrong can be set aside. There is a certain effort required to actualizing what no one could ever escape. Any dimwit can say "every moment is complete." The challenge is to prove it.

    Just noodling.
    CinorjerJeffreyriverflow
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran
    edited November 2013
    betaboy said:

    is any right or wrong - or whether 'right' is determined by various factors like the stage of social evolution, relativity, an individual's position in life, and so on.

    Yes there is right and wrong. Right is determined right because it makes good karma and wrong is determined wrong because it makes bad karma. The Buddha taught us what makes good and bad karma. So he said if you want to get enlightenment, make good karma and stop making bad karma. The precepts are essential because the progression on the path goes from Sila (Precepts, etc.) to Samadhi to Prajna. If you don't have the proper foundation for the first, you will not get far with the others, as one is a supporting condition for the other.
    vinlyn said:



    Of course, if you want to take away the 5 Precepts, the vegetarian-thumpers would leave the rest of us alone. :D

    Orly? How much you wanna bet? :lol:
  • howhow Veteran Veteran
    @Jeffrey
    I think realizations are everyones natural inheritance at different times in their life.

    A good meditation practice simply allows that realization to more fully unfold by leaving it unmolested by one's worldly graspings. A realization that might be life transformative for the meditater, usually remains an interesting but essentially fruitless experience to a worldly intentioned mind.
    Jeffrey
  • Thanks, everyone, but let me put it differently.

    Let's say I want to follow the precepts, but circumstances force me to do otherwise. Then what good are the precepts ... if they are going to be subject to circumstances all the time?

    How can I follow the precepts and at the same time deal with circumstances? I cannot lie, it is against the precepts, but a little lie on my CV could get me a job, put a smile on my family's face, give us bread and butter, etc. etc. Am I to ignore practical considerations in favor of precepts?

    p.s.
    No, just an example. I am not looking to doctor my cv or even looking for a job. I live a rather comfortable life, just an example that apply to the majority.
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran
    betaboy said:

    Thanks, everyone, but let me put it differently.

    Let's say I want to follow the precepts, but circumstances force me to do otherwise. Then what good are the precepts ... if they are going to be subject to circumstances all the time?

    IMO, the only circumstances they are subject to is one's willingness, or unwillingness, to follow them. Reminds me of those family shows on TV where the teenage kid from the ghetto could get more money by selling drugs and stealing, etc., but he chooses not to because it's wrong, etc. When other people in the same situation think they have no choice in the matter so they go ahead and steal stuff, etc. When in fact, they really do have a choice in the matter.
    Am I to ignore practical considerations in favor of precepts?
    Are they really two different things? I don't think so.

    riverflowKundo
  • BunksBunks Australia Veteran
    Don't sweat it too much @betaboy. I drink alcohol and catch myself telling a little white lie once in a while but I still tell myself I follow the precepts......
    lobsterKundo
  • vinlynvinlyn Colorado...for now Veteran
    betaboy said:

    Thanks, everyone, but let me put it differently.

    Let's say I want to follow the precepts, but circumstances force me to do otherwise. Then what good are the precepts ... if they are going to be subject to circumstances all the time?

    How can I follow the precepts and at the same time deal with circumstances? I cannot lie, it is against the precepts, but a little lie on my CV could get me a job, put a smile on my family's face, give us bread and butter, etc. etc. Am I to ignore practical considerations in favor of precepts?

    p.s.
    No, just an example. I am not looking to doctor my cv or even looking for a job. I live a rather comfortable life, just an example that apply to the majority.

    That's actually a very good example. There are plenty of people out there who "doctor-up" their resumes, and some who -- sooner or later -- get caught doing so.

    I think there are two things to remember about the 5 Precepts. First, there is honestly room for differing interpretations, to some degree; although some see that room as they wish to do what they want. Second, yes, you can break a Precept...and if you do, that's where kamma may or may not come around to bite you in the butt.

    It's sort of like the difference between the rules our school system had for administrators, and the guidelines they had for administrators. If I broke one such rule, I was subject to disciplinary action (I never did). If I didn't follow a guideline, I was sort of on my own to maneuver any situation that arose.

    And, BTW, I disagree what some people say about the Ten Commandments (for example) being so much different than the Precepts. They are somewhat different in concept, but the idea that Christians never break the Commandments...hah! They/we do all the time. And then suffer the consequences. The difference is that with the Precepts, the consequences are vague; with the Commandments, they are stark.

  • betaboy said:

    Thanks, everyone, but let me put it differently.

    Let's say I want to follow the precepts, but circumstances force me to do otherwise. Then what good are the precepts ... if they are going to be subject to circumstances all the time?

    How can I follow the precepts and at the same time deal with circumstances? I cannot lie, it is against the precepts, but a little lie on my CV could get me a job, put a smile on my family's face, give us bread and butter, etc. etc. Am I to ignore practical considerations in favor of precepts?

    p.s.
    No, just an example. I am not looking to doctor my cv or even looking for a job. I live a rather comfortable life, just an example that apply to the majority.

    What's the difference between that and cheating on a test? Or doctoring your tax return just a bit? Is it alright to do either of those? What about the person who would have gotten the job instead of you, but was honest enough not to lie on the application? Do you bear any responsibility to that person? Do you see where the precepts are telling you that you're marching into a mine field?
  • edited November 2013
    hermitwin said:

    Buddha sets the guidelines.
    You decide, act and face the consequences of your actions.

    I think it's just the opposite-
    Buddha taught how life and the world works and that we face the consequences of our own actions.
    It's up to each of us to set our guidelines (with the Buddha's teachings in mind).

  • lobsterlobster Crusty Veteran
    Bunks said:

    Don't sweat it too much @betaboy. I drink alcohol and catch myself telling a little white lie once in a while but I still tell myself I follow the precepts......

    Tsk, tsk . . . are you trying to turn Betaboy into Gammaboy? ;)

    . . . however it may be you are living in the real world. I was just washing out some old ornamental pots for a gardening job later. Yes I managed to save a few slugs, one worm and a few wood lice. However one wood lice was only revived when I picked him up and several may have drowned down the plug hole . . . :bawl:

    Doomed.

    I am doomed to servitude to the eventual enlightenment of those murdered wood lice . . .
    Maybe if I cut down on the murder, drug dealing (been pushing coffee again), fantasy prostitution [not much demand for lobster porn . . . but I can dream] and chicken soup, I can make up for it?

    Puja to the usual address [Crusty S Lobster, C/o of Hell Realms, Dharma Purelands, Samsara] All merit donated to the needless.
    :wave:
  • hi
    One beings Karma is another beings suffering.

    slainte
  • Its kind of like being on a first aid course and the message is "NEVER MOVE THE CASULTY" then you learn that there may be times when the casualty will have to be moved because other dangers are apparent. So this rule isn’t a NEVER but conditional.

    There's a story about a student who while walking at night, stepped on something that made a squishing sound. He imagined that he must have stepped on an egg-bearing frog. Immediately he was filled with fear and regret, for the precepts include not killing. When morning came, he went back to the place the incident had occurred and found that he had stepped on an overripe eggplant. Suddenly his confusion stopped. From that moment on, the story says, he knew how to truly follow the precepts.

    This student erroneously thought of the precepts as a training manual or code of behavior. Identifying himself as someone who had mastered this training and who could keep the precepts, he created all kinds of trouble for himself and for others. Although he could expound upon the precepts at length, when he stepped on something squishy in the night, even without intent, his understanding of the precepts did nothing to bring him peace or stability of mind. In fact, it did just the opposite: he needlessly tortured himself with guilt.
    MaryAnneriverflow
  • cvaluecvalue Veteran
    edited November 2013
    Below is the message posted in my dentist's office:
    "You don't have to floss all of teeth ... only the ones you want to keep." :)
    I will let you to interprete this any way you wish relating to our topic of Do the precepts matter. :D
    Sabre
  • cvalue said:

    Below is the message posted in my dentist's office:
    "You don't have to floss all of teeth ... only the ones you want to keep." :)

    I love that! My dentist has one of those signs, too. :thumbsup:

    cvalue
  • KundoKundo Sydney, Australia Veteran

    hermitwin said:

    Buddha sets the guidelines.
    You decide, act and face the consequences of your actions.

    I think it's just the opposite-
    Buddha taught how life and the world works and that we face the consequences of our own actions.
    It's up to each of us to set our guidelines (with the Buddha's teachings in mind).

    Namaste,

    Hmmmm saying it's up to us to set our guidelines with the Buddha's teachings in mind is opening Buddhism up to be watered down, misrepresented and giving the opportunity to create fundamentalists much like the ones we detest in other faiths.

    I have to agree with @hermitwin 's definition.

    But, I've watched over the past say 20-25 years where society has taken somewhat of a "don't you oppress me" (/end Python moment) approach to everything in life. Political correctness has gone nuts. Instead of saying to someone "no that's incorrect Buddha/Jesus/Isis/HaShem/insert deity here meant xyz" now we have to tolerate an incorrect intepretation or assertion because we are scared of getting into trouble for correcting a person. No wonder our schools are in the state they're in. You can see this played out in the legal system where someone pleads leniency because they had a bad childhood and then they get 4 years for murdering someone.

    I know I went off on a tangent there and I apologise for that, but my point is - if you don't WANT to follow the Precepts, why be a Buddhist in the first place? All paths require us to change our habits and lifestyles somewhat, so how can you not expect to be asked to adhere to tenets of the path you choose?

    In metta,
    Raven
    cvalue
  • footiamfootiam Veteran
    edited November 2013
    betaboy said:

    Shalom,

    After going through the threads on porn, prostitution, sex trade, gun control, etc., I am beginning to wonder whether there is any right or wrong - or whether 'right' is determined by various factors like the stage of social evolution, relativity, an individual's position in life, and so on. In short, is it even worth following the right, the precepts laid down by the Buddha? Are we simply becoming more and more legalistic on this account?

    Not saying we should go around and commit evil. But if liberation is all that matters, can't we just be decent human beings in this life and not obsess too much over right and wrong? For instance, I may feel that being a drug dealer is wrong but if my alternative is poverty/disease, then the fear of this alternative may force me to choose 'wrong.' But this doesn't make me a bad person, just a desperate person or a coward.

    So my point is, there is no need to see everything in terms of right/wrong - in fact, most of the 'wrongs' we do are the result of circumstances, our own lack of strength (rather than an active intention to commit evil). </blockquot

    To choose to be a drug dealer just to avoid poverty isn't a very good idea because it brings about suffering to others. Some 'rights' in a society could be very 'wrong' in another. Some 'rights' at one time could be very 'wrong' at another time. If you analyse the Buddhist precepts for laymen, perhaps you would find that they are right at least to your conscience. Then, the precepts matter. And I think choosing to deal in drugs just to avoid poverty will cause suffering to others and death too to some. That's not very good, is it?

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