I was wondering about the boddhisattva ideals of helping others. I dont have that motivation for some reason.
I was reading the suttas about this and wanted to know do you base your good deed on whether the otber wants to recieve it or not or do you do the good deed for him based on your own ethics even if the other says no?
I know people have this "I dont care what people think" view but if you care about others what they think may shape how to help them on their terms not your own. Or?