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The Monastic Life--A "Dead End"?

DakiniDakini Veteran
edited February 2011 in Buddhism Today
Our colleague and Buddhist scholar, Stephen Batchelor, has found some interesting quotes in the suttras that I thought merited exploring.

"Those who hold training as the essence, or who hold virtue-and-vow, pure livelihood, celibacy and service as the essence--this is one dead end. And those with such theories and such views as 'there is no fault in sensual desires'--this is another dead end." Ud 6.8 p.92

Batchelor frames this in the context of finding a middle path, between complete rununciation and laissez-faire.
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  • Laissez-faire? Free market?

    I think this quote is stating that attachment to either path will not lead to enlightenment.
  • Could be. But then why follow the monastic path? Do you mean it's all in how one handles it: with attachment or non-attachment, is that they key? Batchelor's solution was to live in a Buddhist lay community.

    I think this quote is stating that attachment to either path will not lead to enlightenment.
  • I think the key statement in the quote is "the essence." I assume this is to mean "the truth." Many paths may lead to the truth but none are the truth itself. Finger pointing at the moon. Kind of a confusing passage. I wonder if it has been properly translated.
  • I see what you mean, Tal, Thanks for you input. I need to write Batchelor and ask him a number of questions.
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited February 2011
    Hi Dakini,
    Our colleague and Buddhist scholar, Stephen Batchelor, has found some interesting quotes in the suttras that I thought merited exploring.

    "Those who hold training as the essence, or who hold virtue-and-vow, pure livelihood, celibacy and service as the essence--this is one dead end. And those with such theories and such views as 'there is no fault in sensual desires'--this is another dead end." Ud 6.8 p.92

    Batchelor frames this in the context of finding a middle path, between complete rununciation and laissez-faire.
    I disagree with Batchelor's conclusion. I believe that the passage is referring to the fetter of "silabata paramasa" which has been translated as many things, but I believe it means "wrong grasp of precepts". In other words this fetter (in my opinion) means "thinking that the precepts in and of themselves will get you enlightened".

    The Buddha never rejected the importance of Sila, on the contrary, he spoke frequently about it. Sila makes up 3 of the 8 factors in the N8FP, so it must be important, right?

    It appears to me that what the Buddha was saying (with this passage taken in the context of the rest of his Teachings) is that although living a pure lifestyle, keeping precepts are definitely useful they are not the whole of the Eightfold Path.

    It would be a mistake, in my opinion, to say that the Buddha was saying that the monastic path (and keeping precepts) is a dead end. Far from this, it appears that the monastic path is praised again and again in the Suttas.

    Metta,

    Guy
  • I'm planning to write a letter to Batchelor asking a number of questions. These responses have been helpful.

    There's also the fact that the Buddha himself organized monasteries, so he must have thought them useful for practice.
  • If I may share my humble opinion.
    Monastic life was necessary, if only for the fact that it preserved the traditions and scriptures. In the future maybe the monastic life won't be necessary. But I don't know.
  • Our colleague and Buddhist scholar, Stephen Batchelor, has found some interesting quotes in the suttras that I thought merited exploring.

    "Those who hold training as the essence, or who hold virtue-and-vow, pure livelihood, celibacy and service as the essence--this is one dead end. And those with such theories and such views as 'there is no fault in sensual desires'--this is another dead end." Ud 6.8 p.92

    Batchelor frames this in the context of finding a middle path, between complete rununciation and laissez-faire.
    The important is knowing middle path so that these two would not be a hindrance and would also accomplish skillfully along the path towards enlightenment :wow:
  • Most of us view monastic life as a restriction on our freedom. BUddha explained that these rules are to create a conducive condition for single minded pursuit of nirvana. Buddha also said lay buddhist can still achieve nirvana but it is much harder compared to a monk.
  • beingbeing Veteran
    edited February 2011
    I also see monastic life and its purpose as 'the best possible environment for efficient spiritual practice'.
    Living a standard lay life we are bound to get lost on our way much more often, no matter how strong the will.
    The environment IS important. Buddha has explained it. I have experienced it.
  • SabreSabre Veteran
    edited February 2011
    The Buddha founded monastries, so it's obvious that there is nothing wrong with being a monk. You just shouldn't just bow because you think you need to bow.

    Sabre :vimp:
  • seeker242seeker242 Zen Florida, USA Veteran
    If he is trying to say that the monastic life is a dead end, then he is interpreting it so that it means what he wants it to mean, instead of what it actually means. AKA: Confirmation bias http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias
  • If I may share my humble opinion.
    Monastic life was necessary, if only for the fact that it preserved the traditions and scriptures. In the future maybe the monastic life won't be necessary. But I don't know.
    This is a point Batchelor makes; that monastic life was necessary once-upon-a-time, but may no longer be necessary, or the most effective path.
  • I think that if you live the monastic life as it's taught that you should (not just be a monk/nun, but control yourself and train your mind), it should be very effective. Then again if you live a worldly life and train your mind to see impermanence in everything, a reality of only mind and form forever changing, that too should be very effective.

    The monastic life is for those who feel they need the monastic life, that's all. I thought that I would become a monk in the past, even seriously thought about going off on my own and living in the woods at one point! This is because it was hard for me to concentrate on the Buddha's teachings with worldly concerns all about me; delusional constructs.

    What's right for Stephen Batchelor is right for Stephen Batchelor.
    What's right for you is right for you. :)
  • Whatever Stephen Batchelor might say, there are plenty of monasteries around which have dedicated monks and nuns in them who in many cases provide a vital service to lay people in that they can receive dharma teachings and meditation instructions from them.
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited February 2011
    I think that if you live the monastic life as it's taught that you should (not just be a monk/nun, but control yourself and train your mind), it should be very effective. Then again if you live a worldly life and train your mind to see impermanence in everything, a reality of only mind and form forever changing, that too should be very effective.

    The monastic life is for those who feel they need the monastic life, that's all.
    Totally agreed on the first point! :) Unfortunately, not everyone who goes into a monastery is there by choice. They're there because their parents sent them, in the Himalayan tradition, at least. HHDL says only 10% of those who are there are suited for it. Some paring down of membership and reforming of the system would do wonders, IMO.

  • @Dakini, I agree, it's pointless to be a monk/nun if you don't want to be. The mind will strain against every aspect of it, wanting to be free, and so miss the other kind of freedom. ;)
  • HHDL says only 10% of those who are there are suited for it. Some paring down of membership and reforming of the system would do wonders, IMO.
    This is not a quibbling request for source- it's a curiosity-based request for source- hopefully not a video because I have a very slow signal- thanks.

  • http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/kn/ud/ud.6.08.than.html

    Those for whom precepts & practices
    are the essence of the training,
    for whom celibacy is the essence of service:
    this is one extreme.
    Those who say, "There's no harm in sensual desires":
    this is the second extreme.

  • DhammaDhatuDhammaDhatu Veteran
    edited February 2011
    This quote is quite straightforward.

    It simply rejects the view that celibacy iself is the goal of the path.

    The Buddha advised in countless discourses the goal of the path is the unshakeable liberation of mind (Nirvana).

    :)

  • So then, bhikkhus, the holy life is led not for, gain, honour and fame, not for the endowment of virtues, not for the endowment of concentration, not for the endowment of knowledges and vision. Bhikkhus, it is for the unshakeable release of mind that is the essence and end of the holy life.

    http://www.metta.lk/tipitaka/2Sutta-Pitaka/2Majjhima-Nikaya/Majjhima1/029-mahasaropama-sutta-e1.html

    :om:
  • HHDL says only 10% of those who are there are suited for it. Some paring down of membership and reforming of the system would do wonders, IMO.
    This is not a quibbling request for source- it's a curiosity-based request for source- hopefully not a video because I have a very slow signal- thanks.
    I'll see if I can find it. It wasn't on video, but in a piece of text, somewhere on the internet. I see when I'm reading and researching online re: Buddhism, I'm going to have to simply print out interesting points, rather than making mental notes, so I won't have any trouble going back and referencing.

    But several reports on monastic life say that only 10% of the monks receive a meaningful education in Buddhism, which is to say that 90% are required to simply memorize endless amounts of text without any explanation of what they're memorizing. Only 10% are considered to be of sufficient intellectual capability to be taught all the theory, history and symbolism that we take for granted.
  • May we all have happiness and the cause of happiness
    May we all be free from suffering and the cause of suffering
    May we all be well educated?
  • May we all have happiness and the cause of happiness
    May we all be free from suffering and the cause of suffering
    May we all be well educated?
    I like it, Jeffrey. :)
  • As long as sentient beings are sentient beings, the path taught by the Buddha - which included monasticism but was not exclusively monastic - will be valid. Thinking that sentient beings somehow change with time is to deny the validity of what the Buddha taught, quite frankly, and shows ignorance of what cyclic existence actually entails.

    Palzang
  • Hi all,

    I totally agree with GuyC . The Udana verse simply means that by simply practicing Sila will not lead to Enlightenment because there are two more division, namely Samadhi and Panna ( wisdom) . The claim that following the precept is not necessary doesn't take into account nor explain numerous suttas in which the Buddha extolled the need for Sila practice. For example, in the Sila sutta the Buddha said that aside from Sila ( development of virtue and keeping precepts) , a person still needs to develop Full Awareness ( mindfulness) to let go of the 5 hindrancess in every moment.

    Sila Sutta:
    "Bhikkhus, when the bhikkhu is virtuous, observing the patimokkha, conducting himself with the right behavior, realizing the danger in the slightest fault, what further has he to do?
    "Even when walking he dispels grasping ( abhijjha: covetousness ), aversion, sloth and drowsiness, restlessness & worry , and has discarded doubts , then his energy becomes actively aroused, unclouded mindfulness (sati) is established, his body is at ease and unexcited, his mind is collected ( samahita: settled, composed, collected of mind) and unified( ekagga: unified, calm, tranquil). Even when walking, if he is scrupulous in this way, it is said : ‘ strenuous and scrupulous, he is continually with aroused effort to dispel.’

    The same goes with standing, lying down, and sitting, a person needs to be fully aware of feelings, perceptions , and thoughts are known as they arise, as they are present, as they disappear so that one can practice letting go of the 5 hindrances.



    The Gradual Training Sutta ( MN 51) Gives a list of practices in order:
    http://jwleaf.org/html/gradual-training.html
    It shows that after development of Sila ( morality, keeping preceps etc,) , there is still development of Full Awareness explained above, and also Meditation & Wisdom.

    "Possessing this mass of virtues (sila,) , the restraint of the mental faculties, right mindfulness and full awareness, one resorts to a secluded dwelling, such as the forest, the root of a tree, a mountain, a ravine, a hillside cave, a charnel ground, a jungle forest, an open space, or a heap of straw. After the meal and returning from the alms round, one sits legs crossed and mindfulness established in front.

    The path is Eightfold, divided into three division ( Sila, Samadhi, Panna). To eliminate one of the division ( Sila) , the path becomes a Fivefold path or something else.

    SILA (virtue , morality) : Right Speech, Right Action, Right Livelihood

    SAMADHI ( meditation development) : Right Effort, Right Mindfulness, Right Concentration

    PANNA ( wisdom development) : Right View, Right Intention


    In the Mahaparinibbana Sutta, the Buddha said that:

    " In whatsoever Dhamma and Discipline, Subhadda, there exists not the Noble Eightfold Path, neither is there to be found a true samana of the first ( Stream Entry) , second ( Once Returner) , third ( Non-Returner) , or fourth ( Arahant) degree . But in whatsoever Dhamma and Discipline there is found the Noble Eightfold Path, there is found a true samana of the first, second, third, and fourth degree of saintliness. In this Dhamma and Discipline, Subhadda, there exists the Noble Eightfold Path; and in it alone are also found true samanas of the first, second, third, and fourth degrees of saintliness (enlightenment). The systems of other schools are empty of true samanas . If the bhikkhus live (practice) rightly, the world will not be empty of arahants. "


    There are numerous misconceptions put forth in Stephen Batchlor's book. This topic is an example. Also, the kamma and rebirth theory was suggested that it should be thrown out as well. But this is based on the Buddha's night of enlightenment. Personally, I wouldn't use the book as a point of reference .

    Peace,

  • very well put dharma
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited February 2011
    Hello All,

    I asked Bhante Brahmali if he would comment on this since he is quite knowledgeable of the Suttas, here's what he said:
    Dear Guy,

    I think your interpretation is spot on. You have hit the nail pretty much straight on the head.

    There are two obvious problems with how Stephen Batchelor is using his quote from the Udāna: (1) he is quoting without the appropriate context; (2) he is not taking into account other statements in the suttas that would throw light on the present passage.

    As for point (1), he has omitted translating the first phrase in the passage he quotes. This phrase can perhaps be translated as follows: "For an afflicted one who is training, strewn with dust is both what has been attained and what is to be attained ...". Although the language here is poetic, and the exact translation by no means certain, the point seems clear enough: that one is neglecting the true purpose of the practice; one is not striving for what should be attained and one is not even maintaining what has already been attained. Seen in this context, you can see how spot on your comments are.

    As for point (2), there is a passage at AN3:78 where the Buddha asks Ananda whether "virtue and vows, an (ascetic) life, celibacy, carrying them out as if they were the essence, is fruitful." (The Pali phrasing is the same as in the Udāna passage.) Ananda replies that it is fruitful if it is conducive to a decrease in unwholesome qualities and an increase in wholesome qualities, whereas it is not fruitful if the opposite is the case. Again, this shows that it is how we use these things that matters, not the usage as such. And this is the case with everything on the spiritual path. Whether anything is right or wrong depends entirely on how it affects the purity of our minds.

    As for Stephen Batchelor's translation, this is much more difficult (and time consuming!) to assess. We are dealing with Pali poetry here, and this is always difficult to translate. Take the word "training" (sikkhā), for example. Usually this word covers the whole path to arahantship, but in the present case it clearly doesn't. In the commentary to the Udāna, the phrase discussed here (the first "dead end") is understood to refer to the extreme of self-mortification, which would fit well with the sutta's context of two extremes ("dead ends", according to Batchelor). In fact, all the terms used here could well refer to austerities. Sīlabbataṃ can refer to pretty much any "conduct and vows"; jīvitaṃ just means "life", and is completely open to interpretation (Stephen Batchelor's "pure" is not found in the Pali), and the commentary interprets it to mean "austere life"; brahmacariyaṃ ("celibacy", according to Batchelor) is just a general reference to any life gone forth.

    In sum, the interpretation of this passage is difficult. But what is clear, at least to me, is that Stephen Betchelor's interpretation misses the point.
    Metta,

    Guy
  • Hi all,

    Thanks GuyC for consulting with a practicing bhikkhu. Before doing away with Sila, kamma, or the sangha established by the Buddha, we should verify it with the text. A look into the texts shows countless of suttas that was not accounted for by the author:

    The Samannaphala Sutta and the Ganaka Moggallana Sutta also provide us with the complete formula for the practice toward enlightenment from the Buddha. Below is an excerpt:

    *"Come , bhikkhu, be virtuous, live controlled by the restraint of the Patimokkha, be perfect in behavior and posture, seeing danger in the slightest fault and, undertaking them, train yourself in the rules of training."

    * Dutiya-Saddha Sutta
    "Bhikkhus, the bhikkhu has faith, has no virtues by this factor he is incomplete. He should become complete in that factor- `How shall I have faith and virtues. When the bhikkhu has faith and virtues, then he becomes complete in that factor.

    *In the Sonadanda sutta the Buddha taught that wisdom is purified by Morality ( sila, virtue) , and Morality is purified by Wisdom:

    " Wisdom is purified by morality, and morality is purified by wisdom : where one is, the other is, the Moral man has Wisdom and the Wise man has Morality, and the combination of Morality and Wisdom is called the highest thing in the world. But Brahmin, what is this morality and what is this wisdom?"

    “ .... A disciple goes forth and practices the Moralities , he guards the sense-doors, attains the four jhanas ( purifying the mind through meditation) . Thus he develops conduct.

    He attains various insights , and the cessation of the corruptions … Thus he develops wisdom. That is wisdom."

    Peace,
  • edited February 2011
    Is a bhikku's point of view really impartial and objective?

    I think Talisman and Guy C have interpreted the passage correctly, however, having read Batchelor's book, I think he raises a valid point (for discussion, anyway) similar to Inji-gyo's; that societies and cultures have changed in the last 2500 years, and it could be worthwhile to consider the possibility that secular Buddhist communities could offer a valid alternative path to furthering practice and advancing toward Enlightenment. The custom in the Buddha's time was to form monastic communities and find a benefactor to support them. Back then, it apparently was inconceivable to form a community of lay practitioners, since probably no one would sponsor that.
  • Hi compassionate warrior,

    Even if we just examine the assertion closely for ourselves, we can still see that turning an Eightfold path into a Fivefold path is clearly not the path suggested by the Buddha. Based on the false premise that we should do away with Sila, he suggested that the monastic lifestyle is not necessary and that his path of enjoying sexual relationship with no Sila will lead to full Enlightenment.

    Records indicate that there are sexually active householders who can get as far as Stream entry or Once Returning. But generally Non Returners and Arahant are naturally free from lust. If you are shooting for Arahantship, then monastic life is conducive. If you are shooting for Non-Returning, perhaps the 8 precepts household life is needed ( letting go of lust).

    Set up like what you find at a Retreat or Forest Refuge ( for lay people) is conducive to developing deep meditation. If you can't find time after eight hours of work everyday then the monastic lifestyle is ideal for meditation practice. However, I see a need for a renewal of the monastic set up. What kind of monastery allows a monk to smoke what the author said he spent time smoking. Doesn't that clouds the mind and become a hindrance to meditation practice. Why would someone join a monastery waste time doing that. It defeats the purpose of joining a monastery to develop meditation in the first place. The Buddha didn't allow brewed drinks because it can cause mental negligence and decrease awareness. If someone is serious about their practice and wants to make the best of their time at the monastery, this is not the way to go. I am not surprise that the person's monastic experience is not fruitful spending time in that way. However, that doesn't mean that the monastic lifestyle should be eliminated. I am sure there are other individuals who makes the best of their time in the monastery to practice.

    When reading about a man being allowed to spend time smoking instead of developing his meditation, I see a need for reform or renewal of the monastic lifestyle. Such as better instruction or set up.




  • Good points, dharma. I wasn't advocating eliminating the monastic system entirely, I was just exploring Batchelor's ideas. As was commented earlier, I think certain monastic traditions could be greatly improved upon by being selective as to who enters. If membership were limited to those who choose to enter the monastery (or nunnery) of their own free will and due to a sense of calling, then discipline/misconduct issues would be largely eliminated and the tradition would function at its best.
  • GuyCGuyC Veteran
    edited February 2011
    Hi All,
    As was commented earlier, I think certain monastic traditions could be greatly improved upon by being selective as to who enters. If membership were limited to those who choose to enter the monastery (or nunnery) of their own free will and due to a sense of calling, then discipline/misconduct issues would be largely eliminated and the tradition would function at its best.
    This is how Bodhinyana monastery in Perth functions (and I believe that other western monasteries are similar):

    Candidates (who voluntarily express an interest) are given a minimum of 2 years (1 as an Anagarika and 1 as a Novice), sometimes longer, to make sure that it is not just a whimsical decision to become a monk. Even after the initial probationary period, once fully ordained, they are allowed to disrobe and re-ordain several (up to 7 I think...multiple, anyway) times which would relieve some of the stress that may come with thinking "now I'm a monk I have to make this work, there's no choice!"

    There is also a great deal of freedom as to how monks spend their time. If they prefer to meditate more, they can do that. If they prefer to study more they can do that. Due to the differing mental dispositions of monastics I think this is a great system.

    As a result of this combination of flexibility and long probationary period the candidates who remain usually turn out to be really good monks/nuns. Anyone who has met these inspiring examples of what a human being can be would not question the merit of an ordained Sangha in our modern world. It is truly a blessing to have such dedicated practitioners, especially with the state of the world today.

    Metta,

    Guy
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    edited February 2011
    I love this, GuyC! The question is, how to introduce this great system to Tibetan monasteries? For one thing, poor families who have too many mouths to feed give up a child to the monastery at a tender age. So either some sort of financial aid would have to be made available to poor families so they could keep their kids at home, or a secular boarding-school system would have to be set up for the little ones. But I think this is a great model you've outlined. Thanks for sharing! :thumbsup:
  • ThaoThao Veteran
    Interesting thread. I just finished reading Lust for Enlightenment. And first, the author, a Zen scholar, said that "when asked by a foreigner why tibetans freely donated their children to monasteries, a father replied with a smile, 'We are simply returning the sons who were fathered by the monks with our wives.'"

    And I don't believe, after reading this book, that monastic life really works all that well and am on the side of Stephen Batchelor. Why? This book is filled with the going-ons in monasteries since the time of Buddha. In the book he talks about "temple illness," where homosexually "flourished in Buddhist monasteries throughout the centuries." Temple Illness is hemorrhoids.
  • edited July 2011
    Monastic life is actually freedom.

    Because our normal life are actually controlled by our desires.

    It's not a question of right or wrong, it simply is. We do things we enjoy, we reject things we don't enjoy, thats already "control".

    Monastics and Lay practitioners are both very important to carry down the Dharma. By saying one is better than the other, is duality, and not the middle way.

    Stephen Bachelor's analysis needs to be taken with a grain of salt because he is a scholar who carries a biased philosophy oritented view toward buddhism while prejudiced against the faith and religious part of the teachings. His claim on "lesser monastic" just shows his attachment to the lay life.

  • jlljll Veteran
    Batchelor is in the minority.
    Many monks will disagree with him.
    Our colleague and Buddhist scholar, Stephen Batchelor, has found some interesting quotes in the suttras that I thought merited exploring.

    "Those who hold training as the essence, or who hold virtue-and-vow, pure livelihood, celibacy and service as the essence--this is one dead end. And those with such theories and such views as 'there is no fault in sensual desires'--this is another dead end." Ud 6.8 p.92

    Batchelor frames this in the context of finding a middle path, between complete rununciation and laissez-faire.
  • genkakugenkaku Northampton, Mass. U.S.A. Veteran
    Lay or monastic -- suffering is an equal-opportunity employer.
  • jlljll Veteran
    edited July 2011
    Why didn't Buddha continue to live as man and wife
    with Yasodara?
    I think it is a serious delusion to still want a wife when
    you are free from all cravings.
  • I would get so lonely, just ever so lonely. I would miss sharing. Loneliness and sharing. That is what I would miss. It would make me sad. Aint gonna find me in no retreat if I cant talk. OH! I already cant talk. (esophagia surgery.)
    I would miss everyday people.
  • edited July 2011
    Lay or monastic -- suffering is an equal-opportunity employer.
    Ever so sensible, genkaku!
    Why didn't Buddha continue to live as man and wife
    with Yasodara?
    I think it is a serious delusion to still want a wife when
    you are free from all cravings.
    No one would want a wife if they're free from all cravings. But historically, the Buddha is the only one who was able to pull it off. Or one of very few--we can count HHDL in, and there are likely others we haven't heard about. But it's a high standard that few are able to attain. I think there's merit in the idea of facing reality, and doing away with some of the pretense that goes on: lama-monks who have hidden affairs, and so forth. That introduces subterfuge and a lack of integrity into the system, which obviously undermines Buddhist practice. There should be some selectivity, and a weeding-out process, as GuyC outlined, and children definitely shouldn't be abandoned to monasteries and held against their will.

    But I'm intrigued now: if virtue, service, training, and right livelihood are a dead end, what is the goal supposed to be? What do we make of that quote? There must be a broader context that helps make sense of this. Can someone look it up?

  • taiyakitaiyaki Veteran
    true freedom is living as an ordinary person, doing ordinary things.
    monastery life is needed for some people. lay life is needed for some people.

    realization only gives you right view and from there you live out the wisdom through your individual expression.
    buddha at walmart, buddha at a fruit shop, buddha at the pizza place.

    when we can have buddhas all over the world, then serious change will happen. when there is only buddhas who are in the monastery then nothing will change. that is the beautiful thing about america, maybe we'll see everyday buddhas.

    take a buddha out of a monastery and give him/her a real job with everyday problems. it's easy to live in peace under nice conditions, but try staying still amongst the fire. american buddhism will have another style to it.
  • DakiniDakini Veteran
    Time heals all wounds, Vincenzi. But sometimes time needs a little help. The fire puja idea sounds great. Repeat as needed. :)
  • VincenziVincenzi Veteran
    edited July 2011
    @Dakini

    thanks, I will probably do fire pujas as needed... but some meditation now and then, and playing guitar has helped :)

    Edit: I think both posts are misplaced...
  • jlljll Veteran
    Let's call a spade a spade.
    A person who lives the laylife is unable or unwilling
    to let go of the things he has in lay life.
    Buddha taught the the monastic life is the most conducive
    for the spiritual path.
    true freedom is living as an ordinary person, doing ordinary things.
    monastery life is needed for some people. lay life is needed for some people.

    realization only gives you right view and from there you live out the wisdom through your individual expression.
    buddha at walmart, buddha at a fruit shop, buddha at the pizza place.

    when we can have buddhas all over the world, then serious change will happen. when there is only buddhas who are in the monastery then nothing will change. that is the beautiful thing about america, maybe we'll see everyday buddhas.

    take a buddha out of a monastery and give him/her a real job with everyday problems. it's easy to live in peace under nice conditions, but try staying still amongst the fire. american buddhism will have another style to it.
  • @jll

    "Buddha taught the the monastic life is the most conducive"

    AFAIK, that is theravadan dogma, sutric reference if it was said by Shakyamuni missing.
  • @jll

    "Buddha taught the the monastic life is the most conducive"

    AFAIK, that is theravadan dogma, missing sutric reference if it was said by Shakyamuni.
  • genkakugenkaku Northampton, Mass. U.S.A. Veteran
    As far as I can figure out, everyone has the cards s/he was dealt. We can fiddle and fuss about karma or if-only or Buddhist citations or marital status or whatever else lights anyone's fire, but the cards are what the cards are.

    Everyone has the potential to express this true self, to be peaceful and clear, but it takes some willingness and some determination. Better and worse are beside the point. Willingness and determination are not.
  • edited July 2011
    Lay and monastic disciples are BOTH needed to protect and promote the Dharma. The teachings are hurt when the layity puts down the Monastic members of the Sangha (or vice versa, though I am Ignorant of any cases where Mahayana Monastics bags people for not abandoning the lay life).

    Even during days when Sakyamuni Buddha was alive, the Monastics cannot survive without the offerings from the Layity. Even more importatnly, the Layity cannot learn the right teachings with the Monastic teachers.

  • jlljll Veteran
    Nobody is going to force anyone to become a monk.
    But to deny that the householder's life has many distractions
    compared to the lifestyle of a monk is a mistake.
    if someone is serious about the path,surely he can give up everything
    in his lay life.
    Otherwise, just admit that one wants to hang around samsara a bit more.
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