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My mind keeps on chattering in meditation
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Mindfulness isn't bare absorption into the body (my teacher says). It is the ability of the mind to have the background jump to the foreground. In meditation the background 'I am meditating'. Jumps to the foreground and replaces, 'what do I do about x?'
But your way works anyhow because it is impossible to focus on a single object forever. If you could you would never get up from the meditation and you could not possibly notice the breath again when you drift off. The mindfulness of bringing the seeds of 'breat' back into consiousness IS mindfulness. That is why we need to be gentle when we drift off. Otherwise we lose the truth of mindfulness which is returning and diffusing.
As you can see, I can only speak for my tradition. I do candle meditation sometimes though too. I have been having psychotic episodes having to do with openness meditation and so I am working on absorptions.
A candle is different from the breath because the candle only flicers and is hard to lose track of. The breath is chosen in other meditations, I imagine, because it is hard to lose and connects us to our emotions, downward gaze and inherently breath is vulnerable because we need it for life.
And yes the thoughts keep coming in. The mantras are not the only part of meditation. There are thouhts too.
So can the mind be doing multiple acitivities simultaneously? i think it can, but the question arises what is that thing which distributes the awareness to different activities, like an example of say 40% awareness to seeing, 30% awareness to hearing, 30% awareness to moving in a single moment? - Or - does the mind actually have awareness on a single activity in a single moment, but that may be too momentary for us to notice it? Any ideas, please. Thanks in advance.
Apart from the above question, there is one more strange thing which i am facing now in my meditation. let me explain. i started meditating with natural breath as the meditation object - trying to be aware of natural breath - but encountered two problems there except thoughts - those two problems were cautious breathing and what to do in gaps between breaths.
then after i read about being mindful of present moment and silent awareness of present moment, which then leads to awareness of breath. so then i started trying to be aware of present moment.
now the situation is i am trying to be aware of the physical and mental sensations which arise in present moment in my meditation - thoughts come and mind gets entangled and somehow realizes it is caught in thought, so tries to be aware of what sensations are arising in present moment - again another thought arises and it continues throughout my meditation.
Now the problem is - it seems to me that i have just forgotten about the natural breath, because i think during my whole meditation i am just trying to feel the physical and mental sensations, and somehow during my meditation even though i am breathing, i am just missing to feel the breath, rather just trying to feel the subtle sensations arising in hands, feet, head etc. i hope you all are getting what i am trying to say. i think i know that i am breathing in the meditation, but the attention does not go to it, rather the attention is to see if there is any sensation going on in the whole body.
So what do you all think/guess where i would have gone wrong to miss the natural breath - or - should i stop trying to feel the sensations and rather try to feel the natural breath? Any suggestions, please. Thanks in advance.
If we're not aware of it then how do you know it's happening?
When it is voluntary we just fudge it like 'oh I am 50% on the breath 50% on letting go'.
But I have no idea what makes the mind drift off and what brings it back.
@porpoise, there are different understandings of mindfulness. Your bare awareness doesn't account for how the mind rights itself when it drifts off in meditation. I am saying that mindfulness is the power to bring the seeds to the consciousness. This ties in neatly with what @driedleaf asked above. There is a power in the mindfulness, perhaps, that creates the condition for where awareness is allocated.
Anyhow nice question. That is a question you can base at least a years dharma practice on!
"Mindfulness of in-&-out breathing, when developed & pursued, is of great fruit, of great benefit. Mindfulness of in-&-out breathing, when developed & pursued, brings the four frames of reference to their culmination. The four frames of reference, when developed & pursued, bring the seven factors for awakening to their culmination. The seven factors for awakening, when developed & pursued, bring clear knowing & release to their culmination.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.118.than.html
"There is the case where a monk remains focused on the body in & of itself — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world. He remains focused on feelings... mind... mental qualities in & of themselves — ardent, alert, & mindful — putting aside greed & distress with reference to the world.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.010.than.html
Thus he lives contemplating mental objects in mental objects internally, or he lives contemplating mental objects in mental objects externally, or he lives contemplating mental objects in mental objects internally and externally. He lives contemplating origination-factors in mental objects, or he lives contemplating dissolution-factors in mental objects, or he lives contemplating origination-and-dissolution-factors in mental objects.[26] Or his mindfulness is established with the thought, "Mental objects exist," to the extent necessary just for knowledge and mindfulness, and he lives detached, and clings to nothing in the world. Thus, monks, a monk lives contemplating mental objects in the mental objects of the seven factors of enlightenment.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/lib/authors/nyanasatta/wheel019.html#found
Clear Knowing & Release
"And how are the seven factors for awakening developed & pursued so as to bring clear knowing & release to their culmination? There is the case where a monk develops mindfulness as a factor for awakening dependent on seclusion, dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in relinquishment. He develops analysis of qualities as a factor for awakening... persistence as a factor for awakening... rapture as a factor for awakening... serenity as a factor for awakening... concentration as a factor for awakening... equanimity as a factor for awakening dependent on seclusion, dependent on dispassion, dependent on cessation, resulting in relinquishment.
"This is how the seven factors for awakening are developed & pursued so as to bring clear knowing & release to their culmination."
That is what the Blessed One said. Gratified, the monks delighted in the Blessed One's words.
http://www.accesstoinsight.org/tipitaka/mn/mn.118.than.html
let me explain. Of the above 4, there is only mindfulness of the body which i think i can try to do because in the gap, there is no feeling as it is blank, no mental quality i can see as it is blank and consciousness i think is too subtle for me to observe in that blank.
Now mindfulness of the body remains which i think i can try to do - but it leads me back to my question - should i feel the physical sensations of the body or should i try to just wait for the next breath to come, because though it is weird to say but somehow when i was feeling the sensations of the body, i think i missed to give attention to the breath. So should i stop trying to feel the sensations and rather try to feel the natural breath? Please suggest. Thanks in advance.
One of the masters who taught my teacher, told him, "keep your body on the cushion, your mind in your body and peace in your mind." Reeling in my mind to my body is the hard part, but I can tell very much when it's there. Holding onto it is another story!
I don't think you are in a deadlock situation. Keep on focusing and noticing the in/out breath, this is most important. Do not let go of this focus, because this is the key. Of course if you do let go of it you can still come back to it, but keep in mind that this is like starting over again. The longer we can hold on to the focus, the more easier everything will be, and the more advanced we will progress. It will all come together once we can hold on to that focus for a long time. When we keep focusing on the breath for a long time, the breath becomes more refined. The refined breath will permeate through our body, and we can feel that permeation. As it permeates through our body, we can feel it affecting our body. The breath starts by entering our nostrils and into our lungs, our lungs expand and contract, oxygen enters our bloodstream, our heart pumps blood through our veins, and our veins spreads blood and oxygen throughout our body. Some of the air that we inhaled has passed through our body. We breathe the air in again and the cycle is repeated. When we can see the whole breathing process, this is mindfulness of the body, and we should be able to see the whole process while keeping the focus on the breath.
Sometimes a thought occurs, but at this stage we just think "thoughts". Or we start to feel hungry, then we just think "hunger". A painful sensation might arise in a certain part of the body, then we just think "pain". An urge or an unskilful desire might occur in our mind, then we notice that and not act on them. When we notice hunger in and of itself, then that is mindfulness of the body. When we notice a painful sensation in and of itself, then that is mindfulness of feelings. When we notice thoughts in and of themselves then that is mindfulness of the mind. (there is no need to go subtle, just notice the thoughts without losing focus) When we notice that an unskilful desire (greed/lust) is present in our mind, in and of itself, and not act on them, then that is mindfulness of mental qualities.
metta
The 3rd foundation is mindfulness of mind-state ( what you've called "mental qualities" ) and the 4th foundation is mindfulness of mental objects ( thoughts etc ).
And strictly speaking hunger is an unpleasant feeling.
Part of the problem - which he acknowledges, to his incredible credit, bless him - is that he over-thinks things and 'tries' too hard.
Our basic recommendation to him is usually, to 'relax' - but he does provoke some interesting discussion, which is often of great help to others, and can be a timely reminder...
Or, do you think the focus should be retained on breathing - but in my case, i am seeing the gaps between breaths are long and so the focus on nose tip gets lost in the gap? May be my focus is too disturbed to keep attention on any particular thing. But still will like to hear some suggestions on how to increase focus for a longer duration on either breath or body during my meditation. Thanks in advance.
Moreover when there is a thought in meditation, then if it is not awareness, then what is that thing which observes that there is a thought going on in meditation?
So please explain the above things. May be i have not understood your statements clearly - if this is the case, then please clarify your statements about awareness. Thanks in advance.
Is there any way you can get some face-to-face instruction / advice on meditation - maybe there is there a Buddhist group or centre that you could visit?
The mind is thought.
There is no mind perceiving a thought.
Just thought arising and passing. Another thought arising and passing.
Color is vision. There is no vision, no color.
Sound is ear. No ear, no sound.
Sorry i am on my phone so its hard to respond.
But basically we view the world through subjects meeting objects. These subjects and objects are all apparently clear but absolutely not findable.
But this is all just too philosophical.
Look for mind. Look for the watcher. See what happens.
Got a doubt regarding how to do Anapanasati - i have read descriptions by various monks on the way of doing Anapanasati. One description is saying to observe the natural breath and just sit and observe it. Another description says to do breathing in a skillful manner and try to develop the breathing which is skillful and generate calmness in the body - so in a way trying to do cautious breathing.
So now my question is - when doing anapanasati, it is ok to observe the breath going in and going out - but what breath should it be - natural breath or cautious breath? Any suggestions please.
One more problem which i observed with my natural breath is that it is very small sometimes and usually inhalation is what is most prominent, and exhalation is barely noticable - dont know why but somehow it is so - in my most observations, i have noticed that my inhalations are sometimes long and sometimes short, but my exhalations are usually barely noticable - even i have to sometimes cautiously breathe out to make me notice my breathing out in my meditation, though it is weird but this is the case as i am seeing. Anybody else who have observed such a thing in their meditation, please suggest.
Thanks in advance.
shut up, and mind ur manners thats all u need....
Meditation is not one technique that takes care of all problems. It's a set of skills you develop to take care of the mind. Also, every mind is different, so we all need to find our own way. See it in this way and you won't get confused by the apparent differences in teachings. So take responsibility and check it out for yourself. Nobody can look in your mind what technique is best for you.
If you can not find the breath, look better. Your attention is not strong enough to see it. If that doesn't work, focus on the body first to sharpen the attention. Last resort could be to hold the breath for a while. When you start breathing again, you can not miss it.
Metta!
Hi All,
In Anapanasati Sutta, which breathing is said to be observed - natural breathing or doing breathing cautiously to make breathing skillful? Any ideas please.
One more question regarding posture - these days somehow my back has starting to ache a little bit. so my question is - does the posture need to such that we feel that our body has a straight back posture maintaining the natural curve of the spine, or , can we relax the back and sit in a easy manner with the back relaxed instead of straight back? means during the complete sitting duration of meditation, should we have this feeling going throughout that our back is straight and the moment it relaxes, we have to make it straight - but then does the attention needs to be on whats going in the mind or whats going in the body posture? please suggest. thanks in advance.
This is in fact mind as well.
Relaxed yet firm.
Sometimes more relaxation is needed thus i start meditation laying down and then transition to sitting.
Sometimes vice versa.
Do also some body work like yoga or taichi when you're not meditating. This will help with cordination of energy and posture, etc.
from last 2 days, i am observing that in my meditation, somehow after sometime, my throat becomes slightly conjested and then if i breathe, a sound starts with my breathing - this occurs only if my head and neck are in a position and if i retain that position and try to feel my breath through my throat area, then my breath is creating this type of sound in my throat.
has anyone felt this type of sound in their throat during breathing - should i focus on breathing through throat in a way creating this sound - or - when this type of sound starts to arise through my throat, should i change my posture to stop this sound from arising? any suggestions please. thanks in advance.