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Not long ago I would say just rest in my own mind. Just let whatever be there be there.
But I notice times in my life when I am fulfilled more often than not I am remembering or seeing old photos. My lama gives the instruction "relax into your heart connections" (at death). "heart connections" is somewhat cumbersome, but I think it is intuitive. All the kids you played with on the playground. All the people you don't remember when really depressed, but who you could remember if you were really thinking. I liked what @dharmamom said about not fitting everyone into your personal puzzle as your heart connections drift in and out of your life. Oh the sadness of moving on, but the freshness and sustenance of the 'heart memories'.